Worried about College Life

<p>My boyfriend started his freshman year at the University of Delaware this fall. I'm attending school at USC so there is a huge gap in geography, as well as lifestyle. I've visited him about 4 times now and everything seems to be the same. Only I still worry about what he's doing. He's been unbelievably loyal to me in the past but what are the chances he could cheat on me? Or even get physical with a girl on campus? Are the girls at college really willing to walk into a guy's room and give him head? How bad is it? Anyone? Please, the cold hard truth!!</p>

<p>There is a huge lack of supervision so if he wanted to cheat on you (in whatever form), he could. That's just the truth of it. However, whether or not he will is a matter best kept between the two of you.</p>

<p>if hes a good looking dude then chances are hes gonna get scooped up. i know you don't want to hear this but im just telling it like it is.</p>

<p>wtf, is this for real? sorry, i laughed when i read the part about head. yes, he will cheat on you. the good thing is you will probably meet someone better, or atleast better looking.</p>

<p>Wow, those posts were rather dreary... My 2 cents, him cheating on you is always a possibility -- yes, college is full of slutty girls. But if he has remained unbelievably loyal to you in the past, then the optimist in me says, why won't it continue? Despite all the horny guys out there in the world -- or maybe I should say guys with wandering eyes -- I still believe that there exist young males that don't really feel the need to do so and can remain loyal to their girls. Hopefully your bf is one of them. Best of luck.</p>

<p>Agreed with mosby. It depends on the character of your boyfriend, and if he has been "unbelieveably loyal" in the past, I think there is a good chance he will continue. Good luck!</p>

<p>I agree with mosby and angrod that if he's been faithful in the past, there's no reason to automatically suspect that he won't remain so. BUT I want to put in my opinion that it's really hard to keep up a long distance relationship, and it's still very possible you both will break up, even if neither one actually cheats. If I were in your shoes, I would seriously considering breaking it off before anyone gets hurt, so that you can stay friends. That way if you both ever are in the same place again, you have the possibility open to get together again, without having to deal with hurt feelings left over from a relationship that went sour.</p>

<p>Thank you for the facts. It's not as if I haven't seen my fair share of slutty girls here at USC, it's more that I wanted to get an opinion on how often a guy is given the chance to cheat. It's true, that this is a personal thing, but these answer will help me make the choice whether or not to stay with him. Thanks.</p>

<p>Maybe you should transfer to UD. It's as good as Fordham or better.</p>

<p>I don't think transferring to UD would do either of us any good. I'm guessing it will probably signify my lack of trust in him, and we agreed to go to different colleges (maybe not this far apart) but certainly not the same! Maybe I'll ask him, see what he thinks... even still though...</p>

<p>probably wont, but if he does break up with him. you can always get another guy just like he can get another girl.</p>