<p>Whenever we’re in LA and the kids are interested, we take them to whatever food stores they want & stock their fridge, freezer & pantry with our credit card. They both appreciate it & that keeps them from fading away (both can’t afford to lose weight). It helps that both are interested in meeting us & going shopping for food. D was VERY happy to buy all sorts of convenience foods at Costco that we don’t buy normally.</p>
<p>I have started putting money regularly in her checking account so she can pay rent & have money for food (she isn’t always good about depositing her checks).</p>