2016 and beyond wedding moms and dads (Part 2)

My daughter went to a wedding over the weekend. It was a reschedule from last year. The bride and groom are medical professionals who have been vaccinated since early in the year.

The invitations said that they only wanted fully vaccinated guests to attend in person so that everyone could fully enjoy the festivities without worry. If you were not vaccinated then you were invited to view the wedding on zoom.

My daughter had to fib to the vaccine center (only by a week) so that she could be fully vaccinated by the wedding date. She said it was so nice to be able to enjoy a party without worry.

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My sonā€™s small (20 guests) wedding was very nice. It was at outdoor venue. Everyone in attendance were fully vaccinated or had Covid in the past so we were not wearing masks. They didnā€™t have wedding planner or coordinator so we all had to do a lot of legwork but wedding was a total success and very low budget. The biggest expense was photographer and videographer. I got my my dress at https://www.ever-pretty.com for under $50 and it was absolutely lovely and I got a lot of compliments. Everyone in attendance enjoyed it.

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Pictures of what??

On the photos youā€™d like to share are pictures of the church and reception

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I am wearing my dress from the cancelled March wedding to ds1ā€™s May graduation. YEA! Have to find a new dress for the November ceremony.

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Finally, 18 months after signing the contract and one postponed date, Iā€™m leaving tomorrow for DS wedding! All my fingers and toes are crossed hoping it will be everything theyā€™ve hoped for. Itā€™s a destination wedding at a lovely lake/golf resort. The ceremony will be lakeside with dinner under a tent and dancing in a beautiful barn. Bride is getting her wish for fireworks at the end of the evening.

Both bride and groom recently left the military so their friends are coming from far and wide. Final number is 85 which is smaller than the original plans but still a really good number given all the circumstances. Our family hasnā€™t seen each other since Thanksgiving 2019 so it will be wonderful to gather for a celebration. And with the holiday weekend the fun will last a bit longer than originally planned.

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How wonderful! Enjoy every minute!

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@bookworm @soozievt @thunderflop @college_query and anyone else I missed who gave me MOB suggestions. I have seriously procrastinated and am just now looking at some of those. I was waylaid last few months - my Dad has stroke and was in hospital for 5 weeks when he died. I am POA for uncle with dementia who I am moving into AL and trying to get all finances straight. Wedding in September and Iā€™m now feeling panicked. Wish I knew somewhere around here to make something.

I will look thru all suggestions again. If you see anything new, let me know. Reminder - need petite, probably 12, D wants long, bridesmaid dark hunter green so most colors would be ok, donā€™t love lots of sparkle, like lace if it doesnā€™t look cheap, sleeves or some type of sheer jacket preferred.

Other than MOB dress things are going well. Ds dress here and fits pretty well. Bridesmaid dresses in. Invitations here and ready to be addressed. Things are looking up COVID wise. Now just have to concerned about hurricane seasonšŸ¤Ŗ

For @scmom12 ā€¦

https://www.dillards.com/p/jessica-howard-petite-size-34-sleeve-v-neck-ruched-sheath-dress/512175739

In Green:
https://www.amazon.com/MISSMAY-Womens-Vintage-Contrast-Sleeve/dp/B07CLGB8W6/ref=sr_1_46?dchild=1&keywords=Petite%2BEvening%2BGowns&qid=1622048387&sr=8-46&th=1

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/chiara-boni-la-petite-robe-rippy-asymmetrical-3-4-sleeve-illusion-gown-prod235520022?utm_source=google_shopping

In ā€œNew Taupeā€:
https://www.amazon.com/Alex-Evenings-Womens-Petite-Regular/dp/B08R13TPT2/ref=cs_sr_dp_4?dchild=1&keywords=Petite%2BEvening%2BGowns&qid=1622048591&refinements=p_n_size_five_browse-vebin%3A2445360011%2Cp_n_feature_two_browse-bin%3A23490067011%2Cp_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006718011|11006719011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-4&th=1

In dark green:
https://www.bhldn.com/products/pryce-dress-dark-green?via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvM0E2RTA5NDA

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-3-4-sleeve-a-line-chiffon-gown-prod240260096?childItemId=NMT1VLB_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=1&position=24

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-floral-lace-tulle-a-line-gown-prod235410040?childItemId=NMT1A4N_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=2&position=64

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-long-sleeve-draped-soft-jersey-column-gown-prod240290311?childItemId=NMT1VW2_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=1&position=79

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-3-4-sleeve-a-line-mikado-gown-with-lace-applique-prod235410179?childItemId=NMT1A54_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=2&position=59

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-a-line-3-4-sleeve-embroidered-lace-gown-prod235400207?childItemId=NMT1A52_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=2&position=53

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-v-neck-3-4-sleeve-tulle-gown-with-floral-lace-applique-prod235410164?childItemId=NMT1A56_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=2&position=58

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-v-neck-3-4-sleeve-tulle-gown-w-lace-applique-prod240310245?childItemId=NMT1VW4_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=1&position=21

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/la-femme-3-4-sleeve-floral-lace-a-line-gown-prod235410035?childItemId=NMT1A4R_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=2&position=61

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/jenny-packham-bridesmaids-v-neck-3-4-sleeve-crepe-bridesmaids-dress-w-marquis-lace-bodice-prod220950246?childItemId=NMTYULV_40&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat48730734_cat35350732&page=3&position=92

https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/badgley-mischka-collection-shirred-caftan-gown-w-self-belt-prod166350020?childItemId=BGT24VQ_66

https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/rickie-freeman-for-teri-jon-metallic-jacquard-off-the-shoulder-column-gown-prod163980194?childItemId=BGT1VRN_&navpath=cat000000_cat000002_cat441206_cat628436&page=0&position=34&uuid=PDP_PAGINATION_43e81b930b0094ab3b1ef703c3397e14_rE3y-pxmIbJkee3y76xx5xOmrVYbAoozwlb3lNKP.jsession

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-sequin-lace-satin-gown-with-jacket-regular-petite/5751107?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=250

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You are so good at this!

I thought I would pipe in that I had found a dress i really liked for ds1ā€™s expected March 2021 wedding. They eloped last November and expect to have the big ceremony this Nov. I was bummed to not get to wear the short dress that I had picked for the March wedding, but I decided to wear it this month for ds1ā€™s graduation from graduate school. I got so many compliments. At first, I felt a little extra, but plenty of people dressed up for this outside graduation, and it worked really well.

The hunt for the long, fall dress will begin this summer ā€¦

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So my nieceā€™s wedding is on for August 22 at the summer camp. My younger daughter is going to sing 4 songs with a recorded score. Sheā€™s quite talented and can sing anything. The bride and groom like country music, but we are struggling to come up with a processional for the bridesmaids. The brideā€™s processional is Me and You (Kenny Chesney), From this Moment On (Shania Twain) after the ring exchange, This Kiss (Faith Hill) for the recessional. The bride and groom are NOT picky, so all suggestions welcome.

Oh, let me think on this! I love country music ā€¦

OK, all the other songs are older so Iā€™ve given some newer things and classics. BTW, I love This Kiss. I belt that one out in the car. I want to go to this wedding!

Speechless ā€“ Dan + Shay
In Case You Didnā€™t Know ā€“ Brett Young
Prayed for You ā€“ Matt Stell
Last Turn Home ā€“ written by Maren Morris/Ryan Hurd when they werenā€™t even dating but now they are married and have a kid, and I just love them on this. It probably wouldnā€™t be known by a lot of people, but I kind of like that. Makes for interesting listening instead of tuning out because you know the song. It was recorded by Tim McGraw, but I really love their version.
I Cross My Heart ā€“ GS
When You Say Nothing At All ā€“ Keith Whitley ā€¦ Man, I love this song!
I Swear ā€“ John Michael Montgomery
I Can Love You Like That ā€“ JMM
When I Said I Do ā€“ Clint Black

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My friend had her first dance to ā€œSheā€™s a good-hearted woman in love with a goodtiminā€™ manā€. I think it was an accident (just what was played by the band at when it was time to dance), but we all thought it was hysterical and perfect for them.

Wow! @Youdon_tsay. We will do some You Tube listening tonight. Thanks!

@twoinanddone There is no DJ/dancing. B/G donā€™t dance so we are having camp activities for the guests: archery, climbing wall, zip line, boating, crafts, hiking.

Aside: when my son got married, neither the brideā€™s father nor I are much of a dancer so I suggested to them we should all dance to ā€œYour Mama donā€™t dance and your Daddy donā€™t rockā€™n roll.ā€ It was met with a laugh then a firm NO.

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My daughter used a couple of nice songs for her ceremony. Not country but nice songs. Wildflowers by Tom Petty and Bloom by The Paper Kites.

@soozievt some lovely choices! I have 2 long dresses in my closet purchased for my nieceā€™s wedding - saw a 2nd one I liked better, and I like to have ā€˜choiceā€™ for what I am in the mood to wear. Seems she is not inviting H and me now (sad family breakdown). But I have them for the next occasion.

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My kids didnā€™t have any formal dancing pairs. They also skipped the cake. The 3 gals in the wedding party wore green dresses of their choosing, the men various shades of grey. My son gave them matching ties. It was in a brewery.

Dentmom, that wedding with camp activities sounds great!!! I wish I was invited.