<p>Hello I have an immature CHILDISH 30 year old roommate. I met this guy through my girlfriends cousin at family parties. Supposedly they were lovers even though he still has different girls that he meets from craigslist stay over. Anyways my girlfriends cousin buys EVERYTHING for this guy such as groceries, laundry det, cleaning supplies (mops, bleach), comes on the weekends and cleans his room, buys him weed (medical card) ALSO transfers money to him through money gram to buy WEED. After she leaves (from a weekly weekend stay), a DIFFERENT girl is over within an hour or so. If he didnt treat her like **** and was kind to her I would keep to my own business BUT he treats her like *<strong><em>..literally. He doesnt appreciate ANYTHING she does and its always expected that shell take the bill when eating out. ON TOP of all that hes super messy and dirty. The house contains a total of 4 roommates (including me) which 3 of us just moved in. The 30 year old immature child has lived her for a while with 3 girls (they ALL moved out the same time, which recently I found out by the cops that he threatened to kill one of the girls family). I only knew this guy since summer and did not know any background about him. For the first month we moved in one of the roommates cleaned the bathroom which was completely horrid before it was cleaned. I thanked him and told him I really appreciated it and I would keep it clean. The 30 year old immature roommate STILL used our bathroom even though he had the masterbedroom with a PERSONAL bathroom. He would use the bathroom to shave his WHOLE body and leave nasty water all around the sink even though theres a towel designated for that. He would use our toilet and not flush it. He NEVER did his dishes and would leave it piled to the top. I would use plastic utensils so I never had any dishes. I just felt bad because the roommate that cleaned the bathroom also had to do his dishes ALL the time. Last Friday on the 11th I received a call from my girlfriends cousin asking if he (30 year old immature child) texted me because he used me as leverage against her. He threatened her that if she stopped talking to him that he would kick me out. My girlfriends cousin has been asking me, why dont you like this guy? I told her everything listed above and she still asked me another 7 to 8 times and I found out that it was HIM (30 year old immature child) that kept pushing her to ask me. She asked me once more and it was right before an exam literally right 5 minutes before. She texted me the same thing asking why? She included that he was jealous that I asked my roommate (guy who cleaned bathroom) and his girlfriend to split the cost of costco pizza and that I did not include him (even though he was asleep). THEN she also said that he was jealous because I have converstations with the other roommate (bathroom cleaning roommate) when he came home at 3am. Well that stupid text message stayed in my head during my test and I was integrating the whole time when I should have been DERIVING! So Im pretty sure I didnt do so well. I was *</em></strong>ed when I got home and had a talk with her about the text message. I told her to bring him out so I could talk to him about it he didnt want to come out. Then I told her, see look, he doesnt even want to talk, how immature is that? I purposely said it loud so he could hear and want to come out and talk to me (he did). Then he went on to say that the house that we live in is not a boarding house where roommates just walk by each other and not say hi and that we live in a house (his moms name is on the lease for the house so he believes that he can act as the man of the house and do whatever he wants. I went on to say that he just needs to deal with it and grow up. Then I brought up the fact that he threatened my girlfriends cousin to kick me out if she stopped talking to him. Then he tried to act like he never said that (denied) and he exploded and said YOU KNOW WHAT? I DO WANT YOU OUT. We went on a whole argument about how he needs to grow up then get over it and how I need to get out. We werent really getting to each other so I got the other roommate to come in and mediate things. He said, Sam (30 year old immature child) how hard was it to find a roommate? he said , not hard at all. Then the roommate said, Common, I saw the add on craigslist for at least 2 months. Which the last and final room was empty for 2 months after I and the bathroom cleaning roommate moved it. I just laughed. He went on to say about how he can speak smarter than I do because apparently I dont know how. Then I said, yeah thats why youre 28 or 29 still trying to get your Bach degree. He definitely set himself up for that one. Well I just went back to my room to do my own thing because everything he wasnt making sense about anything or talking about irrelevant things. So everything was calm for at least 5 to 10 minutes until he walked through the hallway and went into my room (which I was sitting down on my comp chair minding my own business) and yelled with all his might, YOURE DONEE!!!!! YOURE OUTTT OF HEREEEEE!!!! I just smirked and laughed because this guy is still coming at me and it was just ridiculous. He said that he would make it his mission to get me out and that he doesnt care about school or anything else except getting me out. He called the cops on me because I have a medical marijuana grow which I told him before I moved in( I have a medical card) and tried to get me introuble (which nothing happened). He threathend me to stay in my room because hes going to mess with my property. Well the next day I went to the library to get out of the house and study. I came back to find out that he had shut off the electrcity to attempt to kill/drown my plants (which didnt work). It had been shut off for about 2 hours. ON TOP of that he BROKE my window to my room because he was trying to make an entrance into my room (I barely found out this afternoon when I woke up and looked outside my window). I have PVC piping on my window to keep it locked so nobody can get through the window. The window was broken on the bottom half near the PVC pipe. Im guessing that he did this so he can have easy access to remove the PVC pipe and gain access through opening my window. I called the cops and he left right after I got off the phone with them. The cops told me that theyve been at this house before with the previous roommates (3 girls). The cops gave me 2 options of 1) get a restraining order on this guy 2) call the landlord to get him evicted. I told the cop about the pizza and conversations with the roommates and how he gets jealous, the cop replied, wow, sounds like this guy needs some friends. I laughed So I believe that tomorrow Ill be getting a restraining order on this guy so the police can have more authority if he decided to do anything. I havent had any contact or interactions with this guy since our argument and he STILL KEEPS GOING. Ill be packing my things tomorrow to stay with a friend from highschool that attends the same university. I rather not deal with this immature 30 year old that still keeps going with these stupid comebacks even though I STOPPED talking to him along time ago. Any legal feedback that I should take actions of? Thanks!</p>
<p>Confront him</p>
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<p>leo…his MOTHERS name is on the lease… so he believes that he can act as the “MAN” of the house.
ForeIN… I did and that lead to that stupid argument. There’s no point in talking to him because he always believes he is “right” no matter what.</p>