all girls want is money?

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URGH!!! i'm so sick. so disgusted... humans are like animals...so barbarous...</p>

<p>that is why i will never stop dreaming..</p>

<p>a cloudy day. with lumps of dark. patches.
a lean woman in a white dress runs out from an mansion.
she skips and starts to sing in a lanugage that i cannot understand. a language far away from the East.</p>

<p>she swings in the meadows, so cheerful, ever smiling. her eyes so dark, so lacking in the rude passions. then i realized that it was a dream

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<em>rolls eyes</em> </p>

<p>Wow, some people in here need to leave the computer and get a life, Jesus almighty!</p>

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<p>A MALTESE? Yuck. Just yuck.</p>

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<p>dude, what are u talkin about? maltese are cute. i think they're more cheerful than toy poodles which tend to sniff too loudly (probably still has that gene from the old days when they had look for mushrooms for the freekin aristocrats) and get's so smart with u.</p>

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<p>I don't like little dogs. At all.</p>

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<p>If I make enough money from my job (with a degree higher than a bachelor's) and I can support myself, I don't need a man.</p>

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If I make enough money from my job (with a degree higher than a bachelor's) and I can support myself, I don't need a man.

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<p>But you may want one. And the trend these days is for couples to expect that both are well-educated and self-sufficient. Gone are the days of people expecting a stay-home mom who does all the hard domestic work but has no purchase outside the home. So preparing for your career also prepares you for a long-term commitment to a man -- if that's what you decide you might want. And if not, you're good anyway.</p>

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<p>Just saying that I'm not a looking for a sugar daddy. ;)</p>

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<p>I would have taken a sugar momma, but then I had a shot at one -- a really rich women that I started dating before I realized how big her trust fund was -- but the thing was it turned out I just didn't love her. I didn't hesitate for a second to break up with her when I realized it.</p>

<p>Those who marry for money earn every cent of it.</p>

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<p>Money doesn't matter in relationships, for me at least (I'm a girl). As long as the guy is a hard worker with a desire to succeed and has an appealing personality, I'm happy. So yeah, as many other posters on this thread have pointed out to you... money isn't necessary/a thought relationship-wise for plenty of women :-).</p>

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<p>^^^bullshi*</p>

<p>Many people say this but in real life situations never act on it. If as many girls that say this actually acted on it you would see tons of the hard working people with the desire to succeed that has an appealing personality with lots of girls, as this is obviously not the case someone has to be bsing someone. </p>

<p>Ive heard lots of girls say this line but when it comes down to it is how much he can do for them or maybe how good he looks. Though this can come in a far second if he has a lot of money, as many of us has seen the old ugly rich man with the hot as hell 20something girl at his hip. </p>

<p>This is what girls really want. Distance equals importance.</p>

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<li><p>MONEY</p></li>
<li><p>Looks (and way down there)</p></li>
<li><p>Personality (sad aint it)</p></li>
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<p>Obviously everyone wants someone that can provide for them and that doesn't look like a troll, but girls priorities are ****ed up.</p>

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<p>yeah, well, i feel sorry for you.</p>

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<p>The money aspect is what disgusts me to no end. They're hoping and trying to take something THAT ISN'T EVEN THEIRS. At least with guys there is a biological reason why we are attracted to the physical aspect first. But with girls a guy that makes 60,000 a year can meet your NEEDS just as well as as a millionaire.</p>

<p>But I forgot, you can't really say all girls want money. There are 3 types of girls.</p>

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<li>Gold digger</li>
<li>One that likes to be treated like **** from their man</li>
<li> Rare anomaly that doesn't fit into 1 or 2</li>
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<p>The one that likes to be treated like **** explains why a whole bunch of broke ass people that are ass holes get lots of girls. Sometimes it seems that girls like to be treated badly and be cheated on, on a daily basis. They like to be blown off and for a guy to call them names and act like they don't like them.</p>

<p>At first I didn't understand why in middle school the best looking girls would be with guys that treated them like **** and acted like they couldn't give a **** if they were with them or not, and those guys would get all the girls. While I would treat a girl like a lady, and treat her with respect and just like an equal, but I couldn't get girls to like me.</p>

<p>But then like a lightbulb, it clicked. Treat a girl like **** and she will like you. And guess what. Voila, it worked. In highschool I actually got girls to like me and stopped treating them like ladies. While this was very disturbing to me at first it worked wonders and while I am not an ass hole in real life, when your with the girl you have to have either money or treat them badly or you will be put into the friend category. </p>

<p>Just my observation, you can explain how I'm wrong but everyone of you know you have seen and know what I'm talking about.</p>

<p>Explains the "I love him SO MUCH, but he just won't stop beating the **** out of me. I can't leave him, I can't live without him"</p>

<p>LEAVE HIS ASS. There are plenty of guys out there that would treat you like a queen, and with respect. Some girls please help me understand this.</p>

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If I make enough money from my job (with a degree higher than a bachelor's) and I can support myself, I don't need a man.

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But if you don't make enough money, you WILL get a guy to support you? Nice mentality.</p>

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<p>Kenshin, I think your first post is all wrong. How can personality be that low? Boys do not have to worry about looks as much as girls for a reason, you think?
Your theory of being an ******* wouldn't work if Personality was that low.</p>

<p>I hope you don't marry a girl you meet by being an ****<strong><em>. That's going to be hell for you and when she comes to her senses, she is gonna *</em></strong> you up.</p>

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But if you don't make enough money, you WILL get a guy to support you?

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What's wrong with it?</p>

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Some girls please help me understand this.

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<p>Uh, you already know everything, and you're not going to listen to us, anyway.</p>

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<p>Just because you don't understand something does not immediately qualify it for status of "rare anomaly."</p>

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<p>Haha, yeah, I bet he won't unless you say it in a way that favors his views. ;)</p>

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LEAVE HIS ASS. There are plenty of guys out there that would treat you like a queen, and with respect. Some girls please help me understand this.

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I always felt that when this happens, the 'victim' is emotionally attached to this person. Something like -- a child who is beaten by their mother is not disloyal to their mother. The emotions overtake logical reasoning. There may even be fear to exist outside the abuser's world. I think most of the time the abuser is also a provider.</p>

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<p>Pssh.. I'd love to have my girl work and I stay home and bake ****, that'd be one AWESOME LIFE.</p>

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<p>chanX, I can't cook, that would be such an awesome life for me, too!</p>

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<p>No Really, explain it to me. I'm not a numbskull that won't listen to anything anyone has to say. Just as quitejaded pointed out a flaw in my first post, I learned. I would like to be corrected if my ideas are indeed incorrect.</p>