Am I deserting my friends?

<p>So I will be taking this girl to prom. Who happens to sit at lunch at a table of her other girl friends. Usually I sit at a table with my guy friends. We don't really "cross-over" much at all, with the exception of myself and one other.</p>

<p>So here is my lame situation ahahahaha. Since I don't get to see my prom date really at all during school, I don't want to make my asking be like a hit-and-run and not talk to her for a month until the prom or something. However, if I were to join them during lunch, I would effectively be physically distancing myself from my friends. Would such a distancing be worth it?</p>

<p>uhh, explain it to your friend.
They'll understand, and probably make fun of you and encourage you.</p>

<p>but then like... don't abandon them all together...if you don't have classes with them then just sit at one table one day and the other the next...problem solved :)</p>

<p>so yeah, if shes good looking and you considering actually going out with her...then yeah its worth it...i would worry more about how my friends would make fun of me.</p>

<p>no wayy. your friends will last you a lifetime, you'll prolly never speak to the girl again after prom.</p>

<p><em>hears the sound of a whip cracking in the distance...</em></p>

<p>no. </p>

<p>just make sure to keep on hanging out with your guy friends. i'm sure they'll understand... especially if they too want prom dates.</p>

<p>don't you see this chick you're going to ask after school at all? can't you talk to her then?</p>

<p>umm well if you can, tell you're friends about it. Most of the time, they ll just notice ure going for the chick and give ya some alone time.</p>