<p>Congratulations Suna to your son!
The thing people have to remember about greeks is that not all frats are the same. My son can list off the frats at his school that are known for bad behavior (drinking, drugs, debasing women...). His is not, and there are quite a few like his. Through his frat he's had the opportunity to become involved in some great service projects, and has attended several leadership weekends. His group is heavily involved in student government at the college as well. I believe his involvement in greek life has been a positive experience.</p>
<p>"I see so many brothers in the house that are successful and I want to be like them."</p>
<p>Funny, SuNa--I've felt the same way about a lot of the upperclasswoman in my sorority. Best of luck to you and your son!</p>