<p>that was a troll post btw</p>
<p>Your post or Altaholic's?</p>
<p>altaholic's</p>
<p>CAKI's post was pretty amusing...</p>
<p>morals are realtive...</p>
<p>Morals are arbitrary.</p>
<p>Well, it seems that way until you use the CATEGORICAL IMPERATIVE (dun dun dun).</p>
<p>*** is a troll?</p>
<p>yeah, im not really into the whole hooking up think... i think partly for me, its my culture and how i was raised, but i just dont find hooking up with a random person at a party every night appealing.... and im not a prude or anything, im just not an easy gal...</p>
<p>I really don't think we can pull out Kant as a way to argue about college hookups.</p>
<p>"Every girl in town knew that Kant... couldn't."</p>
<p>Mel Brooks would agree that Kant is ineffectual in that particular area of interest.</p>
<p>"Well, I understand 16 year olds have/enjoy sex. I was just a bit surprised to hear a 16 year old say his sex drive is "through the roof." I'm surprised that sex is such an important part of high school relationships. In regards to your "first few dates" thing, are there girls willing to give it up to you that quickly??? Edit: girls looking for a relationship, not just girls. obviously there are girls just looking for a hookup type thing."</p>
<p>bodacious-- There are tons of girls looking for a relationship that succumb to a random party hook-up with whom they perceive to be a top-notch guy, because they're that desperate for a relationship and [subconsciously] believe that that's the only way they can keep the guy, even if just temporarily. Oftentimes these girls are correct in that subconscious assumption, because many girls don't have much more to offer than sexuality or their looks (not a sexist comment; most guys don't have much to offer as a person either, that's why there's 10 guys who struggle with girls to every 1 guy that gets girls easily). After these hook-ups happen and the guy deserts them, these girls often feel slighted or cheated and blame the guy for being a bad person, when in fact they're responsible for 50% of the hook-up.</p>
<p>With regard to relationships versus hooking up, innocence, not waiting very long, etc.:</p>
<p>I didn't sleep with him after three weeks because I thought I had to do it to keep him; I did because I trusted him and wanted to. We've been dating over eight months, and I'm pretty sure I have more sex than the people who partake in the "hook-up culture" (which indeed is prevalent at my school). It isn't about purity or dissolution. Let's not overgeneralize.</p>
<p>A high sex drive isn't an exclusively male attribute, either.</p>
<p>"A high sex drive isn't an exclusively male attribute, either"</p>
<p>No it's not, I agree--I often find that after the first time with a particular girl, it's her that'll persistently initiate (or steer me towards) sex. </p>
<p>"I didn't sleep with him after three weeks because I thought I had to do it to keep him"</p>
<p>Of course everything varies on a case by case basis, but we shouldn't ignore common patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>ive found that in college, at least where i go, so many girls are way more into hooking up than i ever thought. it is definetly not as much of a male dominated ideology as i thought</p>
<p>^Ohio State i'm guessing?</p>
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<p>Slow and steady wins the race. ;)</p>
<p>Well true... one of the perks of a steady relationship is sex on non-party nights.</p>
<p>So heres a question who is the average ccer then...cool, popular, social, athletic, nerdy, intelligence, reclusive...I would assume more motivated and intelligent than average, maybe a little more nerdy but who knows? Point is I bet the perception on here would be different than at those schools.</p>
<p>lucky guess</p>