<p>Some of you are getting shady for real…what some of you saying are you shouldnt have friends. You cant make friends in dorms or classes, you gotta be kidding your ownself. That is TERRIBLE advice. I have no idea what college you attend, but Id hate to go there. Im just gonna do it no matter what you say cause I know some of you are wrong as hell.</p>
<p>You asked what guys would think about it:</p>
<p>99% of the time guys will think you are interested in them if you randomly went up to them and asked to eat with them, guaranteed. </p>
<p>The only time I would think this isn’t the case would be if you are way out of someone’s league or something.</p>
<p>Their response would be positive in 9 out of 10 cases, especially in college where people are generally pretty friendly. Only cases where I see you getting rejected would be if the guy has a gf or something, but even still he’d be nice about it probably.</p>
<p>If you approached a group of guys then that’s different. Idk what I would think if a girl randomly did that. I’d suspect she liked one of us but it would be kinda weird. </p>
<p>But the easiest way would be to meet people in classes, parties, clubs, events, etc instead of cold approaching people in cafeterias.</p>
<p>Nope. Everyone here is wrong. You were correct in your first post; tapping people on the shoulder is the way to ensure a smooth transition into good conversation.</p>
<p>On a more serious note, it’s all about confidence. If your confident and good with words, I doubt you will come off as creepy, and then the guys you try to sit with may like you.</p>
<p>Though, as previously mentioned, I have noticed it is easier to make friends at parties, clubs, and events (mainly because I would never approach someone in the cafeteria that I don’t know, but that’s me).</p>
<p>there is something wrong with you if you can’t go up to someone and say HI also why does it have to be a guy or a bunch of guys it sounds like your just trying to get a boyfriend- which makes you seem well trollish what did you do in high school for making friends? have friends this- not trying to make you feel bad but come on take psy 101 they’ll teach a few things. also going up to a guy randomly he’s gonna think of one thing- wow this chick is probably easy- so unless that is what you are trying to send out meet them a differnt way- say hi to a guy in the line BEFORE you sit down with him or ask if you could sit at an empty spot and be quitet and listen to the convo and wait for an in- But personally make friends with some girls first then you could have them introduce to some male friends of theirs. just a thought.</p>