<p>I will share one story.</p>
<p>2 summers ago, trying to catch some shade on a very hot and humid annapolis day [during what was a very hot and humid annapolis week], I came across a plebe being marched along by his detailer. The plebe was in Tango, and he was being afforded an opportunity to call home. I had seen him at tables all week, along with a handful of others in the same spot.</p>
<p>The call was heartwrenching, on many levels.
I will share but one, and that was the frantic conversation as to “how can I get into another school now” [read: in time for September]. He was stressed beyond belief, and this was not helping. He wanted OUT, he wanted OUT FAST, and sure as heck he wanted a PLAN for post-Tango. He was, by all accounts, inconsolible, despite the best efforts of his detailer, and a chaplin that eventually calmed him down. </p>
<p>There will be some that suggest a back up plan offers an “easy out,” while others will council that it is a good insurance policy of sorts, a “just in case.” I can argue either side equally as effectively, for good and rational reasons.</p>
<p>All I can say is that you never know.
You never know if you will be the one that decides this is “not for me.”
It happens.
You don’t plan for it to happen, I am sure this kid arrived on I-Day ready to tackle plebe summer and all things USNA, but there you go. It was not pretty, it was so sad, and truth be told, this kid needed to “go” and find another route to the rest of his life.</p>
<p>What did “we” do?
“We” [that would be our Mid] held onto a “spot” until I-Day, then let it go. The other service academy appointments were let go early; it was a civilian one he held onto.
Was it necessary? Probably not, although we did get a most unexpected call to home [on day 3 no less] with an “I’m not sure about this” tone. Thankfully, he stayed the course and commissioning is finally in sight- almost. It’s not done until that cover gets tossed. </p>
<p>So do what you think is right for you. There are no right or wrong answers. Some people sleep better knowing they have some insurance in their pocket, some are of the opinion to go at it full steam ahead. Problem is, this is uncharted waters for just about “all” of you out there, and while everyone hopes you have researched and planned and thought this through thoroughly, you never know. Being there is very different, and YOU are the one that will be there. Not mom, not dad, YOU.</p>
<p>There is no demerit to be gained in having a back up plan, nor a slap on the back to be earned if you don’t. But DO hold onto a plan-B at least until the end of I-Day. Injuries can, and do, happen.</p>