<p>Alright, so I am a foreveralone/loner type in my senior year of high school, and recently I made two "friends." Friend A is good with girls, so I ask friend A if he can get me a prom date; I don't know any girls, and it would be better if I got set up. Friend A follows through and gets me a hot prom date, so I thought I finally got a friend. Friend A also tells me that he'll get me into parties etc. This whole week friend A was talking about how there was going to be a big party at this guys house, and how he wants me to come and give him a ride. Also, since friend A got me a prom date, I've been driving him around and paying for his food. So, yesterday is the day of the party, and I text friend A about coming. He says something along the lines of "are you sure you'll be able to handle it? There's going to be drinking, smoking and hooking up?" I said I'll think about it. I ask him later about when the party is and he doesn't respond. So, then I text Friend B about the party and he says come anytime. He gives me an address and I plug it into my gps and it doesn't come up. I think it's the wrong address so I message him "yo, it's the wrong address." He responds saying "don't come." It turns out that the address was actually the right address, but I still don't get why he would say don't come instead of something else. Are these guys really my friends or are they just using me for rides etc?</p>
<p>you’re an idiot for thinking it was the wrong address</p>
<p>Well, yes, you’re being used, but if this is really out of character for you and they know this (as Friend A implied), they may also think you’re just trying too hard.</p>
<p>“you’re an idiot for thinking it was the wrong address” </p>
<p>I made a mistake.</p>
<p>Short Answer: They are not your friends.</p>
<p>They aren’t your friends. But hey, don’t worry. When you go to college, you’ll meet a bunch of kids with some of the same interests and what not, and you’ll slowly find yourself coming out of your shell and gravitating towards them. Believe it or not, you actually become a doppelganger of your formal self after you attend college.</p>
<p>Eh, whatever. It’s your senior year- you’re never seeing these people again. Don’t worry too much about whether or not they’re your real friends. I don’t want to get too cliche, but seriously, if they were your real friends, you wouldn’t have to ask us whether or not they’re your real friends. Since school’s essentially over (well, I don’t know when your school year ends, but assumptions), just be chill and go with it. Don’t make a big deal and just keep being friends (“friends”… whatever) with them for the time being.</p>
<p>dude not your friends</p>
<p>They seem like losers</p>
<p>They aren’t your friends. It sounds like they’re using you, and I’m sorry. Try joining some clubs or getting a job so you can get close with members or fellow employees.</p>
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<p>Not your friends. They sound like opportunistic jerks.</p>
<p>^ second that</p>
<p>MICROOOO</p>
<p>welcome back, again</p>
<p>aah thanks dfree :)</p>
<p>It’s heartwarming to see fellow CCers reunited.</p>