Awkward Situation with Roommate

<p>My roommate and I never really got along first semester. I tried to make friends with her for the first month or two, but she's one of those stuck up sorority types and doesn't seem to like me much.. She doesn't say much to me unless I ask her something, and even then she doesn't really seem eager to have a conversation. We're polite to each other, just not close. </p>

<p>Last semester, we had no classes in common and left at different times in the mornings. This semester we have our first morning class together. Today I left early by myself so I wouldn't have to awkwardly walk there together, but later I regretted doing that. I felt like going to class together would give us an excuse to talk and get to know each other a bit more, but I was rude and avoided her. On the other hand, she may have felt relieved that she wasn't stuck walking with me for 15 minutes. </p>

<p>Do you guys think there's any point in trying to walk to class together?</p>

<p>If she doesn’t seem to like you much why would you want to try and be friends with her? Find people that like you lol. If I were in your shoes I would leave for class early too. If you don’t want to make it obvious go early and grab a coffee or something on the way so it makes it seem like you’re going early to get a snack. Bottom line:If she doesn’t like you why should you try to walk with her to class? It will just make it awkward.</p>

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Why? After a semester it should be clear that you are not destined to be friends. Which, BTW, is fine. Housing is not in the business of assigning friends, they assign rooms. Maybe it turns out that people put in the same room become friends, maybe it doesn’t. As long as she treats your belongings with respect and doesn’t make it uncomfortable for you to be in the room together (eg. lots of friends over making lots of noise when you need to study, etc.) then you should be satisfied with what you have and let her be.</p>

<p>It doesn’t sound like you like her, and it doesn’t sound like she really likes you. That’s okay. You do not have to be close friends with her. Stop over-analyzing this, and just be. You don’t have to actively try to be friends with her, nor do you have to ignore her entirely. Leave for class whenever you want to leave for class, and just because you’re going the same way doesn’t mean that you have to “walk together.” Listen to music, do your own thing. I feel like you’re working yourself up over nothing.</p>