<p>So here we are, it's April. S needs to be making that college decision soon. Most of the college searching has fallen on S and my shoulder's - H has gone on a few visits, but honestly his tendency seems to be that he is there but not fully participating taking all things in like I do. His attitude is sort of "get back to me when you have the excel $$ chart ready and we'll talk."</p>
<p>The excel chart is pretty much ready. Slight chance that one school may up their offer (we appealed). S applied to 7, got accepted at 6, likely has his choices narrowed down easily to 4, probably 3.</p>
<p>Son is a big sports buff (both participating and as a fan), currently wants to major in Math with the intent to teach HS math. All the schools he applied to have strong teaching programs as well as sports management/business type programs (a second possible interest). He's a social, activity oriented kid. </p>
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<li><p>School #1 - Division 1, Jesuit - loves the atmosphere, loves the campus, the sports both as a fan and to participate in club or intramural. Con: currently the $$ gap is too big. He can consider going the TEACH grant route which will make it more of a possibility. But committing to that off the bat seems a bit risky.</p></li>
<li><p>School #2 - Division 3, Liberal Arts - loves the campus, the facilities (sports and academic), likes the math faculty, nice fin aid, would have maybe $3000 loans Freshman year + our contribution which ends up being less than EFC which we can come up without loans). This school is a favorite outside of "1" above and I/he thinks is a really good fit. He has an opportunity to play a varsity sport here.</p></li>
<li><p>School #3 - Division 3, very small liberal arts - everything is very basic, just "ok" about it - it's less than an hour from home (somewhat negative), campus small not updated (plain academic buildings, dorms, student union, etc), vibe from teaching dept. is ok but that's about it. S's achievements probably put him at the tippy top of the students at this college. Problem? Full tuition scholarship. Yep, that's all my H can see right now. </p></li>
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<p>H can't see why/how we can consider turning down the cash. S is great student (Val) who wanted a private smaller rather than a big state U. School #3 was viewed as a "safety" once he got the scholarship - it was our "at the very least, you have this" option. But it offers so little otherwise. :( H attended a CC for first two years then a Big 10 school for rest of BS and Master's. </p>
<p>If you too have been in this situation or if you have any pros/cons to offer my mind, I'd greatly appreciate your thoughts. You don't have to be on my side ( :) ), but please offer constructive advice and thoughts. Thanks in advance. :)</p>