<p>I've been in college for a week now, and just now im feeling kinda homesick. Like today all ive been thinking about is last weekend when I moved in and the things me and my family did together. Is this normal to be feeling like this now. I guess part of it is that I havent really made a ton of friends yet. Ive made a few friends but not like great friends. I guess part of the problem is that i'm really quiet until you get to know me, then im really loud and talkative. Is there anyway to get over this feeling of being homesick? How long did it take all of you to make your good group of friends and get settled into school? I feel isolated from my floor because theres a group of three rooms (which is where im in), and then down the hallway theres a group of other rooms too. And also, all the other floors have a lot of people living in them, but my floor has less. Anyone have any suggestions on how to make more friends, because I feel like I should be out doing more things I guess.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t say it’s normal, but it’s not that unusual either. When I leave home, I’m homesick for maybe the first day. After that, you get caught up in everything that’s going on, like going to classes and hanging out with roommates. I say try to keep yourself busy, that could help.</p>
<p>I have two suggestions, from a mom’s point of view: First, call your mom or some member of your family and tell them two things you’re liking about school and one thing you miss about home. They will be thrilled to hear from you, and if you consciously tell them some things you are enjoying, maybe you won’t get all negative and sad and excessively homesick while you’re on the phone. Second, watch for events on campus that sound fun to you. Try to attend at least two events in the coming week. This is one of the ways you can find people to socialize with, along with talking to people in your classes and in your residence hall. My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find lots of fun people and things to do very soon. Good luck in college!</p>
<p>It is perfectly normal. Relax give yourself time to adjust. Find ways to meet people that are comfortable for you.</p>
<p>Yeah I’m feeling the same way sorta… I’ve been here for almost 2 weeks now and it’s starting to hit me. Just gotta find ways to keep yourself busy and do everything you can to meet new people.</p>