<p>Basically, I have to live with these people who I disagree with some of the things that they do as far as the bathroom goes and being loud at all hours of the day (over a board game or anime or science fiction). Ive tried to talk to them about it since and my RA (who lives in the suite) but i just get sarcastic remarks and nonchalant attitudes from them. Basically it was "screw you, there's 5 of us and only 1 of you so deal with it" and i really cannot take this anymore. everything was fine before the drama started and now its escalated me just avoiding them. but the way that we live as far as the bathroom door being open at all times (when using the bathroom stall or urinal) and its disgusting. I tried telling them that we are not (fill in the blank)'s but they just wont listen or dont care. now its to the point that they like to pull childish pranks on me like syncing their controller to my xbox and turning my xbox off when I'm playing it or turning it on at random times. Ive tried confronting them about this too, but again no response. so basically idk what to do at this point</p>
<p>They sound like immature dorks/losers. Bring a girl back to your room and maybe they will respect you.</p>
<p>Seems like nearly all colleges will come down really hard on any kind of physical retaliation - which is why people like your suite-mates feel like they have a free pass - so that wouldn’t be the smartest option in the long run. </p>
<p>Don’t stoop to their level and start pulling pranks on them though. </p>
<p>I would go join the rugby team or something if I were you. You will get a whole bunch of tough, hardy guys that will **** anyone up who messes with you… Ruggers have a unique kind of brotherhood about them, what with all the rugby chanting and hookers and ass grabbing and short-shorts… Okay, I don’t know where I am going with this.</p>
<p>Shorter Magneto:</p>
<p>“My suitemates are TERRIBLE! They’re all such annoying nerds, and the RA won’t make them stop being nerdy. I mean come on, they even leave the bathroom door open, what kind of college student does that? I need a way to make them stop being nerds or get them out of my suite plz.”</p>
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<p>wow that was unnecessary…</p>
<p>That is unecessary. College students dont mess up other people’s property. College students dont yell at all hours of the day after being reasoned with. College students show some decency and at least understand what respect means. No, this goes beyond being nerdy. I accept all types of people, hell i even embrace nerds since I’m one myself, but these are childish (fill in the blanks)'s who dont know that we go to university and not jr. high and think we live in a barn</p>
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<p>You have to relax a little bit, this isn’t junior high like you said. You may have done irreversible damage here, because it seems at this point that everyone is teaming up on you now. I’ve had lots of different roommates that have had a variety of different personalities and backgrounds, and this is the only thing that I know works to keep everyone happy. </p>
<p>Let everyone do what they want to do at all times. Then if you need a favor once in a while you can ask them and they will usually help you out, but don’t ask someone to change their habits. If you can’t stand them being loud then leave the room and study somewhere else, go to the library if your building doesn’t have a study area. If they like to use the bathroom with the door open, well, that isn’t that big of a deal. You’re not at your parents house anymore, so you’re going to have to learn to live with other people. Not all roommates see eye-to-eye on everything, so you have to to make some concessions. I’ve had clean freak roommates who would get ****ed off at the rest of us for not keeping things as clean as they wanted. In time they grew to accept the fact that we share our space and that no one is going to change the way they live, and we all became closer by accepting each others flaws.</p>
<p>I suggest you do the same, accept that they aren’t going to change, and try to look past it.</p>
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<p>Where did you get your idea of “what college students do”? Because those sentences are basically describing the opposite of college students.</p>
<p>^was about to say that. My 9 year old autistic nephew has better social skills than the people I live with in terms of not being inconsiderate to the point of insanity.</p>