Chance Me for my 3rd go-around!

Hi everyone on this forum,
I’m applying to 8 schools for next school year as a 10th grader. Here they are.(List is pretty much final. Was going to apply to more but I’m exhausted and January promises to be a very tough month at school and I’ve only interviewed at 4 schools so far. But anyway I feel very confident with this list!)
Millbrook
Frederick Gunn
Tilton
Brewster
Kents Hill
St. Johnsbury Academy
Christchurch
Virginia Episcopal School(Lynchburg not Alexandria)
Interviews have been good overall so far
Tilton was superb, Christchurch was just okay but Kents Hill was great as well. I removed a school I interviewed at due to a reason specified in a previous thread.
Sent in an SSAT score from last year. 93 overall. 99 in reading and 99 in verbal but a 33 in quantitive.
I currently attend a public magnet high school(ranked top 20 in NJ, FWIW according to Niche).This is my third time applying. I applied to Groton’s 8th grade and was waitlisted . Last year I applied to Millbrook and was waitlisted and I was rejected at the Hill. I definitely should have applied to more schools last year as Millbrook and The Hill are super competitive. I also applied to Frederick Gunn last year and was accepted but was WL’ed for FA. 3 schools is not enough and I didn’t realize that till M10.
I’m in my first year at my current school and I really don’t like it or more likely I’m still dreaming of going to BS.
EC’s are,
Debate
Student Council-Fundraising Chair
Church Youth Group-Board member and I do community service through this organization as well
Guitar

Achievements:
International Academic Competitions 2020 Fall U.S History Bee Semifinalist
Selected as a Scholastic Kid Reporter last year and I wrote four articles
A few awards from MS graduation

My Grades were all A’s this first marking except an 87 in Biology and a 68 in Scientific Inquiry and Analysis (ouch)! Keep in mind that my current school is academically really rigorous

I need 75% FA. I know I’m going to “get in”somewhere but I’m really concerned about the FA piece.

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Hello, your grades are pretty good for the schools you are applying to. Your SSAT score is interesting, I never knew someone could be so perfect at vocab and English but get a 33%ile in math. The math on the upper level SSAT is just 5th-7th grade basic math which is kind of concerning but nevertheless very impressed by your English scores (I did not do nearly as well last year!). I would say maybe don’t submit it because of the math part? But also your schools aren’t very competitive so it’s fine and atleast they get to see how good you are at English. No instruments, sports, or large passions/extracurricular commitments is detrimental, but also most of your schools aren’t very competitive either so if you portray yourself well in your essays it’s fine. You have a couple cool awards, so that will help make up for it. Just make sure to rip your heart out on your essays and supplements and make them really want you. It’s harder to get in since you’re FA, but I think you have a good chance at any of these schools. I wouldn’t worry about FA too much, just apply and whatever they give you is what happens, you can’t control it but usually BS provide a good amount. However, I’m more confused yet intrigued by your selection of schools. Tilton, Brewster, Kents Hill, St. Johnsbury, and Millbrook are all rural winter sports schools with very small student bodies. Considering you don’t play any winter sports or any sports at all, that’s kind of strange. I’ve never heard of Christchurch or Virginia Episcopal School before (I’m from Massachusetts and know mostly NE boarding schools so VA is a stretch). How come no Lawrenceville or Blair or Peddie (since you are from NJ?). Why aren’t you atleast aiming for a few better or more well known schools? Maybe not Exeter or Andover, but there are many schools you could aim for inbetween? If you go to a top 20 public high school in NJ, that’s gotta be around top 500 US News & World Report national, which isn’t the greatest but still definitely good (and as you say really academically rigorous). If you really want the boarding school experience, go for it, but also keep in mind that entering as a 10th grader is harder and since most of the schools you are applying to are small, less new students enter in 10th grade. You’d have to be focused on settling in, making new friends with people who have already formed cliques, living by yourself, and at the same time grades and extracurriculars for college because that should be a large priority as well. Your current high school is likely better than most of these schools, so if getting into a good college is important to you, then staying would also possibly help as you may want to know schools like Tilton, Brewster, SJA, Kents Hill, Virginia Episcopal, Churchchrist, Frederick Gunn, etc all only send 0-1 students to the Ivy Leagues each year. Not saying that’s bad, but your T20 NJ school probably sends far more and will give you better opportunities (even if your final goal is not an Ivy League), so you can think about how your future would benefit from that rather than a couple years staying away from home as a teenager (and you’d save money). For example, last year (as an 8th grader), I applied to 8 boarding schools in MA, CT, and NH and got in a decent amount, but ended up deciding to stay at my local non-admission public high school which happens to be one of the best in MA, sending from 5-10 to Harvard each year and many more to other ivies and prestigious schools. It’s not overly competitive like any of the T20 boarding schools and has better college matriculation than all the boarding schools in America, looking at it from the standpoint that none of the 300 kids in my grade had to “get in” and are just local kids while all of the T20 boarding school students all got in through a rough and very selective admissions process and still not that many get in Harvard, Ivies, etc. Although BS would have been fun, I am overall happy with my decision to stay here because I knew if i went to a top BS, I would have almost no shot at a T15 college, but now I have a decent shot at getting in a top 5 college because the people I’m directly competing with to get in are a less competitive group and at the same time my HS still is known and regularly sends to many elite colleges. Hope this helps!

I like your list, and I think you will have choices. The right school for you will find a way to meet your FA needs. The competition is tough this year overall, but I am optimistic on your behalf.

(Ignore the snob who cast aspersions at your choices; you’ll have the last laugh, I hope.)

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I am going to be blunt. Disregard most of @puppylove27’s analysis, as it is off the mark in many respects. There is a difference in perspective between a 13 year old and parents who have been through the process, and may have had kids at one of those schools.

You seem like a great candidate, and I wish you the best of luck. (I don’t do chances :slight_smile: )

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@metsfan5150 100% agree with >>> @stalecookies and @cinnamon1212

Well thought out list of schools, and best of luck!

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@puppylove27, I would consider researching the schools you’re commenting on before posting. I’m puzzled by several of your assertions.

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Thanks for the encouragement @stalecookies @cinnamon1212 and @UltimaCroix!!!

@puppylove27 You are wrong about a lot here. But you are young and when we put ourselves out there, well, we will be wrong sometimes. I call it out not to make you feel bad but because another kid might not have the context to parse through your thoughts. I do appreciate the time you took to write all that out. You are right about one thing though: if one’s goal in going to boarding school is Ivy admission, you are probably better off at home because you’d be missing the whole point of going in the first place.

Boarding school will stretch you and teach you things you can’t even imagine right now. You’ll grow academically, emotionally, socially and you’ll emerge with a worldview that is forever changed by the experience of living at your school with your student peers and faculty who will become family. And you will get these benefits at MANY of the boarding schools, not just the Andovers and the Exeters of the world.

The benefit after graduation is NOT “where you’ll go” but “who you will be.”

And let’s not forget that spending four years of your life is not a tiny chunk just to toss aside casually. Life is short. Spend those four years in a place that makes your soul sing. Really. Just because you are young doesn’t mean you should ignore your current happiness and only do things that will get you into a certain college no matter what. If you would love to go to boarding school, then by golly GO. If your home public school is what will make you happy, then yes do that. The big future next step has a way of working out when we honor our selves of today.

@metsfan5150 – you know I’m a fan and am in your corner. When I heard you talk about that first interview you had a few weeks ago, it just made me smile from ear to ear. THAT’S what I want for you. We all do. Cheering you on from the sidelines.

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Thanks @Calliemomofgirls, proud to have you in my corner!
I can’t believe how far I’ve come since a couple of years ago when I first learned about BS.
Even if things don’t work out this year I’ll remember that this whole journey wasn’t in vain. There are so many amazing people on this forum who genuinely want you to succeed in this admissions process. I’m grateful to have gotten to know them and if do get good results in the next couple of months then I know that some of the credit goes to the people here. Many of them have children applying too and yet they still give time to help others out.
Stay strong, all those who are applying. Were almost there!

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I’m probably going to get three decisions over the next week. I’m a little bit resigned to whatever might happen at this point. Acceptance or no acceptance a new chapter of my life will have to start. It may be that what I think is the best path for me does not become reality. In that case I have to grit my teeth and trust that there is another path that is just as rich and filled with possibilities as the one I have in mind. I just have to find it.
I may be resigned (or at least trying to be) but I am excited at the same time in a positive way. I was so nervous last week but I’ve been settling into a Zen state of mind these past few days.
I’m ready for anything that might happen in the coming days and I’ll be able to take the news with grace and optimism.
I’ll keep you all updated of course as well!

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I would like to hear good news from you! But why will you get results next week, while others are waiting for M10?

Hi @Lex6314, Thank You!
In response to your question;Several rolling admissions schools are on my list. This means that there is no official deadline and applications are reviewed as they come in.

Good luck! Keep us updated.

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@metsfan5150 , fingers crossed for you! I think this may be your year…

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I was just accepted at Tilton!
But I was WL’ed for Financial Aid…
Not too optimistic right now about my chances. As I predicted FA proved a big factor. I assume that the financial situation at these schools is crushing due to the Pandemic crash and I don’t necessarily “bring” anything tangible to a school in terms of sports or music. Not surprised but a little down.
Praying that something works out. Still 7 more opportunities left right!

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Regardless of content, I reject @puppylove27’s comment because PARAGRAPHS.

I don’t know what to say. I think you are a special candidate. The more diverse a school you are applying to, the more opportunity you may have to get accepted, esp when FA is also considered here. I am not familiar with the schools on your list. If I were you, I would go for Andover, Exeter, Choate, L’vile, Loomis Chaffee which are over 700, and some over 1000 students. And these schools are usually generous about FA based on their very healthy funding. Some schools may focus on more humanities matching your STRONG English、History/Writing background, rather than STEM, like Groton and Deerfield (I could be wrong here, just give a couple of examples). I know it is probably too late to talk about the school list now. I wish you good luck in the next weeks!

Btw, I am using my DD’s account to reply.

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WL’d for FA is still not outright rejected.

You should be more optimistic. Really.

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@Lex6314, Thank you so much for your kind words and advice! Unfortunately it’s a moot point for me at this time but what you say really makes sense.
@stalecookies Thank you for being blunt with me. It helped me get out of a little slump I was in.
After the benefit of a couple hours perspective I’ve decided that there’s still a lot of reason to be positive.
I got caught up in the moment.
Heck,I haven’t even finished all my interviews(last one is on Friday)!
This may even be a “good sign”.This is evidence that I’m checking all the boxes. One of the schools I’m applying to is bound to have enough funding for me. I’m not ready to bet against myself just yet!
I’ll be keeping you posted in the coming days and in the words of Yogi Berra, “It ain’t over till it’s over”!

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yay @metsfan5150. It’s early in the process so I celebrate the wins wherever we can!!!

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