<p>Is there time for that? Are people still shallow? Im sure or I hope lol people will be more mature but I didnt really date in High School and I'm hoping to change that. Personal experiences anyone...</p>
<p>hey keenya,
you're going to nu next year, right? I am too...unfortunately i hear that at nu the dating scene sucks, so I don't know</p>
<p>what do you mean by 'dating"- dinner and a movie, or something else...its all in the vocab now</p>
<p>Mario-what is your major? yeah im going to NU for intl affairs/poli sci. That sucks. I dont want to leave college like 'what are boys?' lol</p>
<p>By dating I mean actual boyfriend/girlfriend type deal.</p>
<p>I hear that a lot of people in college just 'hook up' but i dont want to do that.</p>
<p>I would imagine it depending heavily on where you're going. I could tell you all about MIT but most likely that will just be ridiculous for you to sit through.</p>
<p>hello my future girlfriend,
haha jk... Anyway, im majoring in something engineering, sort of undecided
just curious, where did you put as your housing choices? I put willard as my first, then elder, then I forget...yeah.</p>
<p>pebbles: please do tell about MIT, as I am planning on applying there. I would really be interested to hear!</p>
<p>I didn't date in high school either. I know certainly that people can date and even have long term relationships in college (I haven't, but most of my friends have or are right now), as well as hooking up (which certain other friends do on a regular basis). I've had opportunities but I'm rather picky when it comes to guys, so I haven't dated anyone yet. It also seems that it's usually the creepy ones that are interested in me, so I'm kinda like, "urgh, GO AWAY WEIRDOS!" most of the time instead of "hey baby how you doin'?"</p>
<p>Mario-omg lol i picked willard as my first choice then elder too lol and then allison...and then i dont really care after that.</p>
<p>Ok all this dating talk has totally dampered my spirits...I was hoping college would be the time to explore all that lol guess not :)</p>
<p>it can be, so don[t get discouraged and don[t think you have to "hookup" all the time either, to me that is just being lazy</p>
<p>which college is NU?</p>
<p>Hooray for hooking up.</p>
<p>Eh, I'm not interested in hooking up... I'm too much of a romantic, I guess. I'm a "meaningful relationship" kinda girl.</p>
<p>It also seems that it's usually the creepy ones that are interested in me, so I'm kinda like, "urgh, GO AWAY WEIRDOS!" most of the time instead of "hey baby how you doin'?"</p>
<p>I'm still in high school, but me too! The last guy who asked me out didn't quite grasp the concept of personal hygiene (think foul stench and yellowed teeth), and the one prior to that had anger management issues and punched walls for emotional relief. I never know whether to be happy that a guy actually noticed me or upset that that's the type of person I apparently attract... :eek:</p>
<p>Haha, well, I had that same issue in high school. But really, it's still the same for me now. The only two guys I actually would consider dating that have told me I'm hot are 1) both my friends, 2) one has a girlfriend who is another friend of mine, and 3) the other is the biggest manwhore in the world. Of course, I would end up falling for the manwhore. It's how my life goes.</p>
<p>camelia, it's good that you don't wanna hook up. Usually, the guys who also want to hook up are the ones who never want to have that meaningful relationship. Trust me, I'm friends with (and crushing on) the Hook Up King... nothing good can come out of it.</p>
<p>And I'm trying my best to get over the Heartmeltingly Nice Boy whose girlfriend had been a close friend of his for several years before they started going out (that happened fairly recently, as far as I'm aware). I'm half starting to believe that nothing good can come of crushes any way you look at them!</p>
<p>NU= Northwestern</p>
<p>I dont know. Call me a pessimist. But Im starting to think I will never find a 'decent guy.' and I was hoping college would expose me to a better degree of people..erm...guys lol darn I want a bf haha lol but yeah..I dont just want to hook up either</p>
<p>Every living creature on earth dies alone.</p>
<p>Of course. The rabbit's not like us. It has no... keen look at something in the mirror, it has no history books, no photographs, no knowledge of sorrow or regret... I mean, I'm sorry, Miss Pommeroy, don't get me wrong; y'know, I like rabbits and all. They're cute and they're horny. And if you're cute and you're horny, then you're probably happy, in that you don't know who you are and why you're even alive. And you just wanna' have sex, as many times as possible, before you die... I mean, I just don't see the point in crying over a dead rabbit! Y'know, who... who never even feared death to begin with.</p>
<p>I am in the physical sciences, which is often closely associated with engineering majors. I am female, and have been largly surrounded by men because of my major. Unfortunatly, these guys are severe nerds and tend to not care much about personal appearance or odor. Of these societal rejects, I did manage to make a handful of male friends. Each of my guy friends has asked me out at some point in the past 4 years. But yeah.. I never started dating any one of them. Finally a little over 3 months ago, I went to a birthday part for one of my guy friends and met a very attractive engineer who I hit it off with immediatly. The next week we both happened to be at a birthday party for another friend. So we got to talking, and found out we traveled in the same group of friends, just had never crossed paths before. He asked me out, I accepted.. and now we've been dating 3 months. (and now I'm graduating!). I didn't think guys like him existed.. he unbeliveably romantic, sweet, caring, loving, affectionate, yet is strong enough to win in a fight with another guy if needed. It was just instant magnetism, I don't know what else to say.</p>
<p>wow..think guys in China, the guys in my high school not only ignore their personal hygiene but also tend to be only interested in themselves and video games. They are also polar bears that do not do sports at all, the girls have more muscle(the parents and school system piles hw and they just meekly slave away). on top of that, their music favs are Backstreet Boys(hello? when was that?). And NEVER sit opposite to a guy in the canteen, they eat like pigs....Oh and their English sucks and my Chinese sucks, so ...seems like a girl like me who hopes to have a bf in college will just have to be disappointed...</p>