college dating

<p>i'm a sophomore at stanford, i haven't posted a whole lot, but i want to ask this:
this one girl ive been seeing is not very consistent.<br>
what does it mean, when we go out on dates and stuff, but she always wants me to hang out with her friends too. i just don't know what to think. it jsut has gotten me really down, because idk what she wants. there is physical contact, but we haven't relaly done anything besides kissing. i just feel like a loser... :\</p>

<p>A loser who doesn’t know how to use the search function, apparently. Just look at the similar threads at the bottom of the page; there’s tons of crap like this on CC already.</p>

<p>as a girl, i suggest asking her what she wants out of the relationship, cause we have weird ways of expressing what we feel. just be casual about it, dont make it a huge thing.</p>