college friends

<p>I'm a freshman in college and this year is about to end for me. I had been great friends with a couple of people. But as the year progressed things got sour and they started to slowly ignore and now i'm left with the end of the school year and absolutely no college friends. the question in my mind remains whether next year I would be able to make new friends. Anybody gone through this before? Have any advice?</p>

<p>Yeah, you can make new friends, but if you’re finding yourself abandoned by ALL of your old friends you should probably take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror and see if there isn’t a reason for that.</p>

<p>I suggest having an activity where you can continually meet up with them. For next year, join a club and make friends there so you would see them every time you have a meeting. Or ask people if you want a play an intramural sport so you have an activity you’re all obligated to. The best way to make and keep friends is by doing stuff together.</p>

<p>I’m a transfer so will be in kind of the same situation. I’m not too worried though. This year I could have made friends if I wanted to. I talked to a lot of people in class, and could have hung out with them, but I figured there was no use in make more friends since I was leaving.</p>

<p>Join clubs, talk to people in class (I find this easier to do in small classes). Shouldn’t be a problem.</p>

<p>Sometimes friends drift apart due to interests. I lost interest in many of my friends this year.</p>