<p>I go to a good private day school right now, but it is smaller and doesn't have as many opportunities and the atmosphere I would prefer. I have been secretly looking at boarding schools online (my cousin went to a HADES) and "doing my homework", which involves extensive research. For the most part, I have found a broad range of schools I am interested in. However, my mother is not completely open to the idea of boarding, simply because she would miss me at home and she feels that she would rarely see me. I do not want something so petty to prevent me from seizing such a great opportunity, I feel like usually its the PARENTS trying to convince the kids to go to BS.</p>
<p>I could and will try to convince her by persuading her that it is worth it and boarding schools are actually great places, contrary to the common myth that parents send off misbehaved and disliked children to them. However, knowing her, this will not be fully sufficient. I need a reason(s) that will fully address the not being at home, lack of contact/connection with parents issue instead of directing it into the direction of great academics or programs. She is worried that I won't stay in touch and that our relationship might falter, and that she would miss me so much and feel disconnected or like an awful mom. My parents work a lot, so they put importance on spending the little free time they have with us (my brother and I). BS PARENTS: words on how u have coped with this? Any methods or systems you have put in to place?</p>
<p>ALSOO (EXTRA ADVICE) I am going into this kind of last minute due to my mom not being very open. I do very well on standardized tests, on ERB and ISEE I placed in the top 5%, will I need to study extensively for the SSAT? Also, should I have the SSAT administered by a consultant prior to the january date in case the January date results would come too late? </p>
<p>P.S. ANY other advice you have on the admissions process (particularily last minute) convincing parents (cost-wise as well, we don't qualify for FA) testing, interviews, visits, and BS life.</p>