<p>@Fox21- Well, they both have their ups and downs. I’ve known I was going to apply to Cornell for over a year- I’m just kind of in love with the school. And the ILR program is perfect for me, as it is vastly interdisciplinary and all-encompassing of nearly every subject that I am most passionate about; I can’t imagine a better major all rolled up into one, know what I mean? Columbia is a little higher on the status symbol list, just by pure numbers (as far as I’m concerned- I don’t think one is “better” than the other or anything, I’m just going by the national rankings that everyone goes by), so the fact that my #1 goal is to give my kiddos the BEST life possible, making sure they NEVER have to face the many, many trials I’ve seen in my days…well that makes me wonder if Columbia would be a better option in helping me to achieve my goals- but really, Ivy is Ivy…surely there wouldn’t really be a difference, right? My assumption (not to make an “ass” out of you or me, lol) is that graduating from a stellar school like either of those really increases your odds at a better career- but I don’t think one school helps more than the other; I think from that point it’s more about what YOU’VE done with your education, and what your plans for the future are, etc. Anyway, I’m droning on, but basically both schools seem fabulous, I’ve been more interested in Cornell for longer, but to be 100% brutally honest, if I got into both it would just come down to the aid packages, plain and simple. I have kids to take care of- whichever place is going to best assist me in caring for them while obtaining my education, I’m down. I only applied to schools I wanted to go to VERY badly. So out of any of them, if I receive more than one acceptance, the school I go to will most likely be determined by the aid I’m offered. That’s just how it has to be. If a school offers me a scholarship amount that requires taking out huge loans just to finish paying tuition, how am I going to keep a roof over our heads, food in their bellies, and for heaven’s sake, they JUST KEEP GROWING!! It’s never, “hey mom, can you afford to buy me a whole new wardrobe right now, even though you just did that about a month ago? No? Oh, okay, then I’ll just not grow right now…” Nope, they just do it, doesn’t matter how I feel about it…oops, there went another tirade…well, you get the idea. ;)</p>
<p>To answer your question about my major, again with the very interdisciplinary thing- that’s really important to me. So the major I’ve been accepted to at Columbia is a dual Social/Film Studies program with added emphasis on biological sciences and mathematics. That may not make sense, but I have weird plans for the impact I want to make on the world, and for those plans, it’s the best route… :)</p>
<p>I just realized you said “regardless of cost/barriers.” Man…I really don’t know. They’re both fantastic schools. But I don’t have to be hypothetical- it’s gonna come down to the cost/barriers, lol.</p>
<p>Oh, and the deposit/response thing- yeah, I’m kinda screwed lmao. I’m supposed to reply to Columbia, with a $500 deposit, within the week. Here’s a secret- I do NOT have $500, especially not $500 to throw at a school I may not end up attending… I’ll be asking for an extension, so hopefully that will work out okay. Still no sign from Cornell yet… I must hold out!! Haha</p>
<p>(Turn in your essay, fool)
:D</p>