<p>There are people in the world who hate warm weather?? Learn somethin’ new every day…</p>
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<p>@eyethink- I know this is important to you- you said you based your curriculum for the last–two years, was it?–on what would be the best course of action to get you into ILR; clearly, this has been your goal for some time now. So, I understand what a difficult decision this must be for you. I think if it were me it would come down to how “life changing” the UCLA offer really was. I mean, you know what you’re looking at- is this something you simply can’t afford to turn down? Or could you go to Cornell, enjoy the ILR program you’ve been looking forward to all this time, and manage your life comfortably, so as to NOT feel like you made the wrong decision. You want to weigh these options carefully, obviously, but especially because you don’t want the remainder of your undergrad career to be tainted by nagging “what if’s.” So maybe make a list for each school- tuition and book costs, living expenses, things like, “will I need to buy a whole new wardrobe for this school as opposed to the other, because of the climate difference from my current town?” Really take some time and try to get down every possibility. Then subtract the FA you’ll be getting from each, look at the differences, and see if it’s utterly impossible to ignore how much more viable UCLA is as an option. In contrast, compare the Cornell side with potential earnings during your undergrad, etc., and see if it’s more manageable than you thought. You never know- after making an extensive list like that, you may find that after hidden expenses or what-not, the difference isn’t actually that big.</p>
<p>Of course, you might find out that it makes no sense to turn down UCLA. Ideally, this method will help you really pull all of this under the light and make your choice clear.</p>
<p>After doing this, if it were me, I would consider the possibilities for the future. WIll your education at UCLA put you in the best position to meet the right people, take the right classes, have access to the right research, internships, the best chance for any graduate school you may want to enter, and so on. Or would Cornell better satisfy those needs?</p>
<p>In the end, a simple cost/benefit analysis, using all of these criteria, should make the choice clear. And you may find that at the end of the day, with one choice glaring at you as the obviously more “sound” option, your heart just aches at the thought of opting out of the other-- and if that happens, I say that’s enough of an answer (screw logic; make yourself HAPPY!).</p>
<p>I don’t know if that will help at all, but hey, that’s my two cents. Good luck to you, and no matter what, as GallatinGuy said, you’ll end up at an amazing school and I’m sure an incredible future ahead of you. There are DEFINITELY much worse decisions to have to make, so huge congrats to you!!</p>