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If Joe the studly football player called you beautiful and always stared at you I bet you wouldn't be complaining
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Lol seriously. This reminds of me that SNL skit with Tom Brady on the three simple rules you need to follow to avoid being accused of sexual harassment:</p>
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<li>Be handsome.</li>
<li>Be attractive.</li>
<li>Don't be unattractive. </li>
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<p>Looks like Mr. "Creeper" here broke all three rules.</p>
<p>"I opened the thread to say the same thing. If he was a hot young stud you probably wouldn't be complaining lol. Just reject him straight up like you would any other guy you're not attracted to."</p>
<p>Unwanted sexual attention is still creepy no matter how handsome a person is. It's stupid to think otherwise.</p>
<p>There also are plenty of stalkers who are good looking and still are dangerous.</p>
<p>OP -- Please follow my advice and let the administration -- head of H-R and even the college president know about the problem. Get other women who have been harassed to do the same. The college is obligated under law to do something about anyone who is sexually harassing others, which is what that man is doing.</p>
<p>Please do not follow the wrong advice of well meaning but uninformed peers who are posting here. I used to work in a university and in a Fortune 500 company's H-R department. I even ran workshops about sexual harassment. I know what I'm talking about. You do not have to put up with that man's behavior, and you should not have to switch dining halls in order to be able to eat without being harassed.</p>
<p>If you have further concerns, post on Parents Forum, where you're likely to get informed advice.</p>
<p>Have you tried getting a police escort? At the very least ask a campus officer to watch the person from a distance or through security cameras as you go through your routine. He/she should be able to pick up on things and be able to make a more reliable, first hand report/account of the situation.</p>
<p>Whatever you do, don't lie about anything in order to give more attention to yourself. You don't want to get caught up filing a fake report about him touching you or something like that.</p>
<p>Tell him no clearly, unless you haven't already. Explain to him that you are uncomfortable with his behavior and leave.That's all you need to say at first.</p>
<p>If he continues, write a letter to someone higher up or talk to the Campus Police yourself.</p>
<p>Sexual harassment starts out with small things like these. They should be taken seriously. It's better to overreact than to run into serious trouble later. </p>
<p>Honestly, if he continues, I'd file a police report.If just to show that it is NOT okay to force attention on anyone. Make a statement.You've got the right to do it, and he's overstepping boundaries.</p>
<p>Simple solution to get rid of him: guns, lots of guns.</p>
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Unwanted sexual attention is still creepy no matter how handsome a person is. It's stupid to think otherwise.
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I disagree. I would be sketched out if an ugly, obese girl started hitting on me. But if a beautiful girl did the same thing (regardless of how insane she is) I'd be flattered.</p>
<p>But that just might be me.</p>