<p>Ok, so I'm about to be a freshman in college, and I've never dated. I dont even have any male friends. What's the best way to meet guys (even if it's to just be friends) without trying to seem desperate or awkward?</p>
<p>By not trying and just letting it happen naturally like you would with girls. I didn’t date until college either and then I met my fiance in January of freshman year, so things worked out well for me once I got to school. lol. But nothing really clicked until I stopped trying.</p>
<p>Find a group of friends, go to parties, talk to guys in class. Whatever, don’t put too much on it.</p>
<p>Just be cool…</p>
<p>Don’t be desperate. That’s when stupid things happen.</p>
<p>Start out by acting normally with guys. Maybe start some conversations with some guys in a school club, or talk to guys after class, or guys who live nearby. Just start out by discussing normal everyday topics like you would with anyone else and after awhile you’ll feel more comfortable talking to them :)</p>
<p>Talk to us guys. It helps. Really.</p>
<p>The first day talk to a bunch of guys even if it is just small talk, and try to make it last through the semester. Eventually one of them will give in and you guys will be dating.</p>