<p>Hello, I am going into my Senior year of high school and I was just wanted to know abut dating in college. Like will be easy to find a girlfriend in college if you never had a girlfriend before. I just want general information. Thanks! :)</p>
<p>If you haven’t been able to get a girlfriend up until this point, you’re probably going to struggle to get a girlfriend in college as well.</p>
<p>well I really haven’t been looking for a gf in high school…if I had to I would be able to get a gf in my senior no doubt…but really waiting to get in a relationship in college</p>
<p>Going into my senior year of highschool I’d never had a girlfriend. I had no confidence and not a ton of drive to get one, so it just never happened. I went on a few dates and had dates to prom and homecoming, just nothing further. Senior year I broke out of my shell a little bit and actually got a couple girlfriends, which gave me the confidence to date pretty well in college.</p>
<p>It is considerably easier to date in college since there aren’t parents around, you can do whatever you want when you want and there are more ‘easy’ ways to talk to people. If you don’t have confidence you still probably won’t though.</p>
<p>You shouldn’t wait though. Go ahead and date around a little in highschool so you can get some experience. It is really important to have some experience. You’re not looking for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you’re looking to find out what that kind of person might be like and how to deal with different things that come up.</p>
<p>Don’t rush into dating if you don’t want to. I’m a freshman in college, and I still have no drive at all to date. Late bloomer or whatever else. Have been approached by a number of people during senior year and so far in college, but just turned them down. Chances are, you’ll be able to date pretty easily whenever you want to start. Plus, in college there’s no curfew or parental supervision, and there always seem to be more date-worthy places open.</p>
<p>Well it’s a seller’s market so if you’re a girl than you’ll have no problem finding a guy to date when you want one.</p>
<p>If you a guy though I’d get out there and start playing the field if you haven’t already. No pressure, just fun flirting and stuff.</p>
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<p>Is this really true?</p>
<p>Do girls have a considerably easier time getting a guy to date than guys do getting a girl? If the girl is reasonably attractive and has some sort of agreeable personality it is much easier, since guys will come to her instead of her having to seek them.</p>
<p>Dating is entirely relative to the people involved. However the amount of time you spend around people in comparison to high school is so much more that the odds of something happening between two people increase a lot. Don’t worry about it. Just decide to be confident and flirt, and if you find someone you really like and you know they’re available, ask them out.</p>
<p>Hooking up is much easier in college than in high school, I don’t know what in the world ahkman is smoking but it can’t be exotics…you crazy man.</p>
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<p>Yeah. You might not have the one’s you want asking you out, though.</p>
<p>I never had a bf in HS.</p>
<p>Had one my second week of college. Broke up 2nd semester had another bf (that I’m still with) about 1 month later.</p>
<p>And I don’t even go out to parties/big social things.</p>
<p>But maybe its easier for girls. ;o</p>
<p>Most people don’t really date in college they just hookup</p>
<p>yeah I probably won’t date early in college…just hookup to see my options</p>
<p>Girlfriends are for suckers, in college your in your prime lol play the fieldddddd, after all, variety is the spice of life</p>
<p>Casual sex has its time and place of course, but never underestimate the virtues of consistant sex. In both quantity and quality.</p>
<p>lol @ “playing the field.” You guys better just hope that you get to play at all. I have a hard time believing that CC is full of pimps.</p>
<p>I think CC’s posting demographics are more diverse than you’d think. There are a lot of people who came for college help a couple years ago and stuck around for the entertainment.</p>
<p>Richard Rivera, the people who weren’t getting any in high school aren’t going to magically start getting some in college.</p>
<p>On relationships:</p>
<p>It’s easy to get a girlfriend/boyfriend if you know who you are, the kind of girls you like, and consistently put yourself in situations to meet these girls. You also need to be socially aware of where you fit in and know the types of girls who find you attractive. Everyone has at least one type. If you don’t think you have a type then you haven’t found it yet. (or don’t understand what a type is). If you put in a decent effort then there is no reason you shouldn’t have a girlfriend after your first year. </p>
<p>To high schoolers reading this thread,</p>
<p>People don’t hook-up in college nearly as much as you are probably think. Yeah, there are people who hook-up with multiple random people every week, but this isn’t common. You also need to have extremely low (if any) standards. Being this good involves a significant amount of game, time, effort, and alcohol. You also need to be the type of guy that drunk sluts are attracted to, so if you’re not, then don’t expect these results.</p>
<p>Guys, if you make a decent effort, then you should expect to hook-up with at least 1 girl your first year. Unless you are abstaining, then you should expect to have sex your first year. If you don’t then you need to take a serious look at what you’re doing, you may even need to get your friends involved to help set you up. </p>
<p>Notice: You have to make a decent effort. If you put more effort in then you’ll get better results.</p>