<p>Just saying there's a lot of talk about finding the "P spot" leah. If you really care you might wanna try.</p>
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haha i can pretty much promise you he's pretty satisfied, and he's one of those people who is even more satisfied when his partner is.
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<p>but i thought girls didnt like sex and would rather "cuddle".</p>
<p>haha. i know exactly what makes him..happy, if you will. and he frequently tells me so, too.</p>
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but i thought girls didnt like sex and would rather "cuddle".
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<p>and this is probably the most false statement on this thread ;)
although the cuddling should come after..</p>
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and this is probably the most false statement on this thread
although the cuddling should come after..
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<p>No its not. Its well documented that guys are only after one thing, while women could care less if they got it or not. </p>
<p>Leah, you could be in the minority that like it.</p>
<p>I have a friend that uses her ex boyfriend for sex.</p>
<p>haha most of my girlfriends
love sex.</p>
<p>the ones that don't aren't having it at all..</p>
<p>the human species would be extinct if both genders didn't evolve to like sex. Women are just a lot more picky and want to do it less often for obvious evolutionary reasons.</p>
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I have a friend that uses her ex boyfriend for sex.
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<p>That's why we have the word tramp in the english dictionary</p>
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haha most of my girlfriends
love sex.</p>
<p>the ones that don't aren't having it at all..
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<p>I dunno....I just find that hard to believe. They want it less often too.</p>
<p>"Its well documented that guys are only after one thing, while women could care less if they got it or not. </p>
<p>Leah, you could be in the minority that like it."</p>
<p>this, for a fact, is false. guaranteed</p>
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this, for a fact, is false. guaranteed
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<p>How is it false? My school published this psychology research in which they found that most men would sleep with a stranger if they found her attractive, whereas women wouldn't. If both men/women liked it equally, they would have given similar answers.</p>
<p>women enjoy sex just as much as men if it's done right. it's not very hard to turn men on, but women are a lot more complex. they can certainly have just as much pleasure and can want it just as much as men as long as they're getting fulfilled. it's just not as simple.</p>
<p>also, manyyy of my friends will sleep with an attractive stranger.</p>
<p>leah, i think you should have been around long enough to realize mightnick doesn't exactly know women (he makes me feel like that guy from vh1) :)</p>
<p>then why do guys grope at parties and girls dont?</p>
<p>@MightyNick: Okay, sleeping with a hot stranger makes me instantly think "STDs" (it's probably because I'm watching Law and Order SVU right now and it shows this college kid who got AIDS from a random woman who wanted to make her husband mad).</p>
<p>Most women want romance + sex, so the survey may point to women's tendencies towards one night stands, but not sex in general.</p>
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<p>The first statement from you that I agree with.</p>
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<p>Wanting to have sex with a stranger and wanting to have sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend are two different ends of the spectrum.</p>
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women enjoy sex just as much as men if it's done right. it's not very hard to turn men on, but women are a lot more complex. they can certainly have just as much pleasure and can want it just as much as men as long as they're getting fulfilled. it's just not as simple.
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<p>So you have to do it right and only then do they enjoy it. Most never achieve the O either (if you know what I mean). For guys, a girl can just lie there and do nothing, and he'll still have the time of his life. </p>
<p>I still don't believe they like it as much as guys. It's just can't be true.</p>
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leah, i think you should have been around long enough to realize mightnick doesn't exactly know women
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<p>haha, clearly. just trying to set him straight so he has realistic expectations when he does have experiences with women!</p>
<p>OMG it's absolutely not true that women can't orgasm!!!!!!!!!!!! it's just a lot harder for them!</p>
<p>(haha sorry i'm getting so passionate about this; i'm a sexual health activist/educator so it's really important to me)
I</a> Love Female Orgasm®
^^we brought these people to UNC this year; their program was awesome and you should definitely check out their book!-</p>
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I still don't believe they like it as much as guys. It's just can't be true.
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<p>LOL :D</p>
<p>You might not think that because you can't get a girl. Girls choose because, for the most part.. they CAN.</p>
<p>and leah.. remind me to find a sexual advocator at my uni!</p>