<p>114rmr, The point that sticks out to me is that your daughter had a difficult first year in general, with some unhappiness/uneasiness unrelated to choosing a major. If she went back to sophomore year thinking all of those issues would be resolved, she probably got hit hard when she realized that not much had changed. Thus, the major decision may be taking on more importance than necessary because she's using it as a mechanism to avoid dealing with other issues. The fact that she wants to transfer, without really being able to voice how transferring would make things better, indicates to me that this probably has very little to do with choosing a major, and more with just wanting to escape the situation.</p>
<p>In short, this probably isn't about choosing a major, so much as it is about wanting to avoid issues in other areas of her life.</p>
<p>I would suggest that she see if she can get some counseling through the school to deal with those issues first, before worrying about the major. She should also talk to her advisor or dean of students about her unhappiness at the school, and see if she can come up with a plan to make things better for herself.</p>
<p>If the answer is no, then she needs to think carefully about what she wants from her NEXT college besides just transferring willy-nilly. She'll also need to think about how she might need to change in order to be happier at another school.</p>
<p>As a transfer, she won't have a ton of time to make up her mind about a major, so she should go over to the career center at her current school ASAP. They usually offer tests and other materials to help students identify their interests, strengths, and values that might be helpful.</p>
<p>I've found that a lot of kids have trouble making the commitment to a major because, through the eyes of a 19 or 20 year old, that commitment seems to imply that they will be "stuck" forever. This is especially true for kids who haven't yet figured out their own self-identity. It's important that, as parents, we step back and let them figure out as much as possible for themselves - we can't make the choice for them, we can't live the choice for them. It has to come from them. It's painful to watch, but usually it eventually works out.</p>
<p>So, encourage her to find other adults at school to talk to, and listen to her as she weighs her options, but try to separate your own feelings and understandable worries out from hers. Best of luck to your daughter.</p>