<p>I need advice from all you wise, experienced parents. At what point should academic rigor trump proximity to home? My daughter is introverted, socially awkward and immature, but bright and scholarly. She has been accepted to Smith and Mt. Holyoke, and Lawrence University in Appleton, WI (not the conservatory). We live in the Chicagoland area, and are not rich enough to hop on an airplane at the drop of a hat. We have no friends or family in MA. The FA aid offer is best at Smith, about tied and still good at Lawrence and Mt. Holyoke. My daughter fairly strongly prefers the womens colleges over Lawrence. She expects to major in biological sciences. We are fortunate she would heed our advice, and make the most of wherever she attends. </p>
<p>Our daughter did apply to several more rigorous schools in closer proximity to home, but didnt get into any of them. Dont even ask why we let her apply to colleges we would have second thoughts about allowing her to attend. We expected better options closer to home (dumb, I know) and did not think through all the ramifications of distance (again, dumb). So here we are trying to make a good decision.</p>
<p>My husband and I went to college close to our homes (I actually lived at home), so we have no experience with this. I dont want my protective mommy-urges to prevent her from having the best college experience she can but I dont want to be sorry she is far away, either. </p>
<p>Thanks for any advice!</p>