Did my professor come on to me?

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<p>I'm not kidding here. I'm not the kind of guy who jumps to these kinds of conclusions. I'm really not. But I think one of my professors hit on me at a club the other day.</p>

<p>I went out with three of my friends to this club. I don't go to clubs often, but a local radio station was doing some kind of promotion and there were a lot of people around our age who were going to be there. By the way, I have a girlfriend and she was cool with me going.</p>

<p>So we go and we're having a good time listening to music and dancing...that kind of thing. </p>

<p>At around 11 o'clock I check my phone and my girlfriend had called, so I go outside to call her back. We talk, she asks am I "being good" (which is completely annoying) and I tell her yeah. And I was. All my other friends were going around trying to get phone numbers and dancing with girls. I was partying for one.</p>

<p>After I hang up with her, I see my professor and two other women walking up. I'm not going to lie: she is attractive. She's in her mid-to-late 20s and she's worn some pretty "form-fitting" (to put it nicely) clothes this first week back to school.</p>

<p>When she saw me standing there, she smiled and waved. While it was weird being in the same club with one of my teachers, I didn't really think much about it.</p>

<p>So I go back in the club, get a drink, listen to music, that kind of thing. I talked to a girl I know from school for a minute. </p>

<p>So it's around 12:30 and we're about to leave. I'm standing near the restrooms for my friends to come out and she walks by. She stops and says hey, asks if I'm having a good time, that kind of thing. I tell her yeah. She goes, "you're not supposed to be out on a school night" and we laugh. I tell her, "well, neither are you". Then she says, "you're really cute, you know that?" and I smiled (or blushed) and said thanks. Then she was like, "seriously, you look really good tonight" and I said, "you look pretty good yourself". She smiled and said thanks, then she said she had to go to the restroom and I said okay and that I'll see her around.</p>

<p>It was really awkward.</p>

<p>I didn't tell my friends what had happened because I didn't need to hear that "man, you should've landed the deal!!" crap guys give you. And I definitely didn't tell my girlfriend. </p>

<p>What do you guys think? What should I do, if anything?</p>

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<p>"What should I do, if anything?"</p>

<p>The professor.</p>

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<p>Um, be true to your girlfriend. Don't do anything with your professor; act innocent and naive about the situation. Tell your girlfriend about the situation because if someone else saw it and she finds out later, it probably wouldn't be the best for you.</p>

<p>Oh, but when you are telling her about it, leave out the "which is completely annoying" and the fact that your teacher is pretty hott. Just tell it as a omg, you won't believe this weird thing that just happened type story.</p>

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<p>must been giggling your way back to your dorm</p>

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<p>a hot professor who's in her mid-to-late 20's? that's a rare one. I'd say take chuy's advise. GET IT ON WITH YOUR PROFESSOR. YOUR GIRLFRIEND WILL NEVER KNOW. plus your grades will benefit. :P</p>

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<p>umm wow no I would have to disagree with that. I would just approach your professor and say how you felt in that situation and wanted to make sure that she wasn't hinting any inappropriate behavior/relationship between you two. But I wouldn't approach her in a way that's not calling her out or making it seem like she was doing anything wrong.</p>

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<p>you should start coming on your professor</p>

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<p>dont bother approaching the professor unless it happens again, and more overtly. maybe she was drunk and is incredibly embarrassed that it happened? it doesnt really excuse it, but still. tell your girlfriend (the way runforfun told you to, but dont confront the professor for now.</p>

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<p>She wasn't coming on to you at all. What's wrong with giving people compliments. You took it the wrong way.</p>

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<p>TITCR.</p>

<p>In all seriousness, don't do anything with the professor. Tell your GF, and go from there.</p>

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<li><p>There's a good chance that she was tipsy and doesn't even remember what she said.</p></li>
<li><p>Someone's giving you a compliment isn't an invitation to have sex with them.</p></li>
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<p>The lech prof who taught at my college was far more obvious than giving compliments. He tried to kiss me. That's an obvious pass.</p>

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<p>agree with northstarmom. you probably don't need to make much out of the situation unless it happens again. </p>

<p>... but if you didnt have a gf, then go with chuy's advice jk jk ;)</p>

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<p>dood seriously hit that. it's a story worth having for the rest of your life, you could tell ur grandkids about it.</p>

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<p>I don't really understand the question. What should you do? </p>

<p>Do whatever you want. Impregnate your professor and dump your girlfriend, try to set up a threesome, or simply ignore her....why are you asking us? </p>

<p>Did you just make this topic to show off what a cool guy you are, on at least the subconscious level? </p>

<p>Or were you seeking reinforcement and possible validation if you decide to cheat on your girlfriend? </p>

<p>I think both are very likely, especially considering what pains you went to show that you weren't cheating in the story. (Usually, it's implied) </p>

<p>You know what I would honestly do in your shoes, man? </p>

<p>I would break up with your girlfriend. You seem too immature for relationships.</p>

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<p>tell ur girlfriend about it. Yes she was hitting on you.</p>

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<p>punkdude is right, you should do it just cuz its a good story. You could tell your kids and grandkids that may be from your marriage to the professor...</p>

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<p>"What should I do, if anything?"</p>

<p>The professor.</p>

<p>TITCR.</p>

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<p>what school do u go to in atlanta?</p>

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<p>dude...don't listen to any of the females on this thread. FORGET your girlfriend and get with your professor. it will be one of the most hilarious (and memorable) things you'll ever do in your life...for god's sake man, go for it!!!</p>

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dude...don't listen to any of the females on this thread. FORGET your girlfriend and get with your professor. it will be one of the most hilarious (and memorable) things you'll ever do in your life...for god's sake man, go for it!!!

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<p>Quoted for Truth!</p>