<p>Hello,</p>
<p>I'm currently an English writing major, and since my school makes minors mandatory, I need to choose one. I originally declared TESOL, but eventually came to the realization that I'm too introverted to last very long in a room full of kids. So, my new choices are either digital media or international relations, since I do have some interest in both topics. </p>
<p>Any advice on which minor would be more useful in the "real world," or more compatible for someone who does better working individually? </p>
<p>Thanks in advance.</p>
<p>Firstly, TESOL needn’t be about teaching only children. It can be adults as well. You’ll also learn classroom control techniques. You learn to become the ring master, so to speak. If you want to spend time working abroad it’s still a brilliant option. I had an amazing time in China. Health matters are the only reason I came home when I did. I’d already been looking at other (warmer) options but I loved where I was, working for a local university. </p>
<p>IR isn’t in itself dreadfully practical. If you’ve got an interest, go for it. But unless you’re writing about IR or travel etc it won’t give you any additional edge over any other English major. </p>
<p>Digital media is a really interesting choice. It’s certainly more practical and would go nicely with your major. It could lead into graphic design, web publishing, advertising, marketing, pr etc. </p>
<p>There are no guarantees in the real world. You have to make your own opportunities. Get work experience. Make contacts. Be flexible where you can work. </p>
<p>You have more of a problem with your desire to work on your own. Unless you’re working at home as a writer or graphic designer, most jobs involve an element of team work even if you’re in different locations or even time zones. Even home office jobs require interpersonal skills to help keep clients and suppliers onside. However, the ability to get your head down and concentrate on the job when others would be distracted by office goings on is also an asset. </p>
<p>I hope you don’t take that too personally. Lots of us are like that. But team work is a skill that can be learned. It’s about learning to listen, negotiate, say what you mean succinctly, take charge when needed. And it’s a skill you spend a lifetime working on. A team made up of solely of brash, outgoing types would be a nightmare to be part of.</p>
<p>If your college offers any workshops on it, do take advantage. If you aren’t already, get on the staff of your college newspaper, website and/or magazine. This would also help fill out your resume. </p>
<p>Good luck!</p>