<p>I saw a pic of a hot girl on my friend's computer and asked him to hook me up with her. He talked to her and she's ok with it. So we started to email each other. We've never met nor talked and we only contact with emails now. After a couple of email exchanges, she asked for my pic so I sent her my pic and asked if we can chill sometimes since I was going to her campus soon. She asked me when I was coming. I replied Saturday at noon. She said her folks are visiting her for Dad's weekend and she might not make it but will let me know tomorrow. The next day she said her folks are staying all weekend and she won't have time that weekend. </p>
<p>I talked to my friend and he said there is indeed a Dad's weekend and it's a big tradition at his (and her) school.</p>
<p>So I asked her if next Saturday at noon might be fine. She replied she's busy with midterms nowadays but will "surely have time in the next couple of weeks". And she said "I barely know you, don't you think we should know each other a bit more"?</p>
<p>So my question is did she just reject me? Do I have a chance with her would should I just give up?</p>
<p>She left the door open with the statement about having time in the next couple of weeks. She might be feeling a little worried about your enthusism, so be sure to be a bit casual and non-stalky. You might want to wait a week before contacting her again, then see if she responds positively.</p>
<p>1) try IM'ing, you'll get to know her a lot faster than emails.
2) you know her through the internet, what are the chances that she'll meet a guy at her school in between now and "in the next couple of weeks"? lol</p>
<p>Move on... if she gets back to you, great! If not, you'll have already found someone else.
Not to mention, you really don't know this girl, so obsessing over her doesn't make a whole lot of sense! You should get to know her first. Hot's not everything. She could be the most beautiful thing on earth, but if she turns out to be a..., you're not going to want to be around her for long!</p>
<p>i think your rushing things, and she's not ready for a commitment, then again i could be wrong and she might actually be busy or she might just not like you (no offense). anyway she did say "we should get to know each other first" which means she is still interested;give it time and realize this is just one girl and there are others to choose from.</p>
<p>you don't even sound like you trust her. you had to double check with your friend just to make sure she's not lying? even if she meets you, i doubt it'll last. you sound like you just wanna bang her.</p>
<p>Are you sure that this email is from a "girl"? Could be one of your friends playing a trick on you. Trying to get you to reveal private things about yourself (as boys do when they want to impress a girl) that would prove embarrassing later on. And beside, email? In this century? Did you miss the IM revolution by a decade?</p>
<p>You're being way too forward for someone who she doesn't even know. If you're serious, try to seriously get to know her. But, I think you might just have blew it.</p>