what do I do? Girl said we'd hang out, we didn't.

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<p>OK so I posted a thread earlier about a girl who I asked out via facebook, and was scared I was ruined forever. So today I got her number, and then I called her and asked her to hang out. She said we would, we planned on somewhere to go, and said to call her in a bit. I called her later, and I got no answer. I texted her twice, and then she finally texts me back "idk, tho I may still come to campus" in response to my text "are we still hanging out?" And now she won't answer. </p>

<p>Why would she ever do this? We always chat after class, we always walk together, I laugh at her jokes and listen as she talks endlessly. Why did she stand me up? Why did she lie to me? This was my big chance to get a girlfriend, or a lady friend to introduce me to potential girlfriends. She is really cute too! What do I do?</p>

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<p>You got some advice in the other thread, and you didn’t follow any of it. Seriously, get a grip.</p>

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<p>“What do I do?”</p>

<p>You leave her alone and stop trying to analyze everything. </p>

<p>She didn’t lie. She changed her mind. </p>

<p>Don’t text, call, or facebook her. Move on.</p>

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<p>Wow. Desperate much? Unless you’re the most socially awkward person, you’ll have other opportunities in life to get a “lady friend.” You barely even knew this person.</p>

<p>Seriously. And listen to nysmile. Chill out and stop analyzing everything.</p>

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<p>Dude, why are you so intent on chasing after this girl who “talks endlessly?” Find a girl you actually like.</p>

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<p>I just got a visual of some kid laughing maniacally and feverishly nodding his head and agreeing with everything this poor girl says.</p>

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<p>lol. I doubt that’s far from the truth.</p>

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<p>^ lol</p>

<p>Girl: It’s such a beautiful day out.
OP: YES!! IT’S SO F-KING LOVELY TODAY!!!</p>

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<p>She was probably banging some other dude without a condom. You don’t need that whore.</p>

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<p>Again, you are putting her on a pedestal. Just move on, don’t think of everything in such absolute terms.</p>

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<p>“Why would she ever do this? We always chat after class, we always walk together, I laugh at her jokes and listen as she talks endlessly.”</p>

<p>Believe me it’s not even fit how better off you would be if you didn’t always chat with her, always walk with her, always laugh at her jokes, and always listen to her babble on. Assuming you want to be more then friends with this girl.</p>

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<p>you got rejected move on bro</p>

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<p>^thisssss.</p>

<p>i mean, seriously…how many times did u try to contact her in the span of 10 minutes…?</p>

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<p>Yes now you completely screwed it up.
Time to move on. I don’t think you can recover from this unless she really likes you. (and it seems she does not) Now she just thinks you are creepy. you gotta stay away for a bit dude</p>

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<p>Look, all that stuff that some people say about how you have to be an a-hole and an alpha-male and all that is a little over the top, but you do have to have your own groove or else you come across as too needy.</p>

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<p>^Not even. He didn’t have to be a jerk to get her attention, but calling her, then texting her twice, probably within half an hour? You’ve come across as a desperate loser. Honestly, you’re lucky if she even lets you back into the friend zone after this.</p>