<p>" US students have parents, teachers, friends they can show their essays to, apart from CCers. Here, if I want to show someone my essay, I'll have to make them read the guidelines first, and it's too much of a headache."</p>
<p>It's a fallacy that all US students are having their essays read by parents, teachers, friends, etc. When I applied to college, summer college internships and to grad school, I never had anyone read my essays. Why? Because I felt that I could be more open about my perspectives and experiences if I was revealing that info to strangers whom I'd probably never meet rather than to family/friends/teachers, who might not agree with what I wrote or who may want me to remove from my essay quirky things that reflect who I am (things that the admissions officers actually might like, too! When it comes to top colleges' admissions officers, they like quirks. They don't want to build classes in which everyone acts in a similar way.)</p>
<p>It's not as if I was writing about deep secrets. I remember that one of my college essays was about what it was like growing as a black female in a small town that was 99.9% white, where I was one of only 5 black students in the town's high school of 1,500 students. How I felt in that situation wasn't something that I typically talked about with friends, family, teachers, so I didn't want them to read that essay. I figured if the college didn't like the essay because of the topic, it wouldn't be the college for me. </p>
<p>I'm sure that my essay contained some typos and small grammatical mistakes because even now, I'll miss some things like that. However, I also know that colleges are far more interested in using essays to learn about one's character, perspective, creativity than seeing how nitpicky they can be. After all, the colleges always can find out about students' English skills by seeing their test scores and grades. Anyway, admissions officers probably speed read the essays since they have so many to read. Unless errors are major, the admissions officers probably won't notice them.</p>
<p>As I write this, I think that my S is probably writing his college essays. He told me that he doesn't want my help. I'd be surprised if he's showing them to his friends either. I think that he's probably like me, feels much freer writing his essays if his close associates won't see them.</p>