<p>And if so, who is it? And if not, what's wrong with the others?</p>
<p>Absolutely not. I truly wish I did. But I think I’m a very private person…I’m upbeat and outgoing with friends, but there’s a very big part of me that no one really knows about. It’s not that I don’t trust my friends…I’m sure they would listen or help me out if I wished to share. I just…haven’t learned how to share these things with anyone yet.</p>
<p>^Same.
It also doesn’t help that my group of friends don’t hang out outside of school as much as some people who go out every weekend and sleepover at each others’ houses, etc. Also, my friends don’t often talk about certain topics I may have surprisingly strong opinions on.
I realized this a while back and tried to keep a diary/blog to record random thoughts that I couldn’t or would forget to get out otherwise, but then my thoughts just ended up sounding stupider on paper, like I was being whiny or a wannabe poet.</p>
<p>^Oh yeah, it’s the same here. Or it was. Especially during the school year, I didn’t often hang out with my friends outside of class or sports. But this summer has proved to be a happy change. I hung out with my friends nearly every day, which was nice. Still no change with the keeping things to myself bit though. Perhaps it’s a naive thought, but I’m hoping that I will find a person who I can share absolutely everything with, and that that person will be “the one”. But maybe I just watch way too many movies xD. </p>
<p>I also tried out the diary thing, lol. It didn’t work out very well. I just have way too many thoughts going on 24/7. When I try writing them down, I either go off on a tangent, or I don’t cover everything I wish to talk about for that day.</p>
<p>I probably haven’t told anyone everything but I’ve distributed my most important thought/secrets between the most important people in my life i.e. my family and best friends. Works best that way :)</p>
<p>I wish. I don’t have that kind of relationship with anybody.
Oh, I sometimes day-dream about the person who would become that to me.</p>
<p>Would you want to tell your partner everything tho? Like…your personal grooming mishaps and everything?</p>
<p>It could depend on what “anything” is. Like anything as in topics ranging from religion and politics to school grades and problems at home, or anything as in discussing a fetish for reading about torture to analyzing your thoughts about other girls?</p>
<p>I do have some people I can talk to pretty easily about certain things, but the very dark things I keep to myself, as I do believe there are certain things that should not be shared, not only because it probably isn’t pleasant, but also so that you don’t become an open book.</p>
<p>Yes. One. My best friend. Even when we fight, if something happens that I can’t handle, I call him. We’ve seen each other cry more than either of us feels comfortable admitting</p>
<p>We’ve had the awkward sex conversations that go too into detail. We’ve discussed things in a normal way that would make most people crimson. We have the most honest friendship I’ve ever seen or been in. Very little is held back. It’s reassuring being that close and trusting to someone.</p>
<p>i have a few friends i think i could tell anything. i’d say… about 3 or 4 girls and 2 guys. by anything, i mean anything. Including things that i’d feel awkward talking to my parents about.</p>
<p>I did, in middle school. Then, I moved away and so did she. We still live within an hour of each other, but we have other friends, other schools, other lives, and we’ve kinda drifted apart. It sucks.</p>
<p>Jesus
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<p>I can tell my best friend absolutely anything, from my midget fetish (just kidding) to family problems. Once I tried to convince her I had a crush on her just to see how she would react and she was totally cool about it. We don’t take anything seriously so she just laughs and makes a joke out of everything I tell her. I could literally tell her a family member died and she would make me laugh about it – which is better than another “aww I’m sorry.” And we’re both equally insane, so when I tell her my completely screwed up thought that I would never tell anyone else, they’re usually thoughts she has too.</p>
<p>I have a lot of friends who I could tell “anything” but she’s the only one with whom I’d actually share those really ridiculous things that I’d be embarrassed to tell anyone else.</p>
<p>No, not really. I’m just a private person. I have someone that I could probably trust with serious stuff or whatever, I just don’t like to put myself out there like that, you know?</p>
<p>Some of you are lucky. And I hope I ■■■■■ doesn’t say to me “get off CC and find some friends” because that’s so not the case</p>
<p>ONCE UPON A TIME, it was alicewang. And then I realized alicewang never cared in the first place. It’s alright though. I’ve stopped expecting people to care in general, so I’m not mad at alicewang anymore.</p>
<p>By the way, I’m not blaming you for this (or anyone on alicewang). It was all me and my overly-high expectations.</p>
<p>Hey guys. I’m here :)</p>
<p>I have a twin sister, so I’m lucky and can talk to her about anything.
So I don’t really have a need to talk to my friends about some things.</p>
<p>I have someone I can talk about 90% of things with. But they’d be mad if they heard that.</p>
<p>yeah, i have a twin brother and a close group of friends that i love</p>
<p>i also have my parents for certain issues</p>
<p>find some trust worthy friends</p>