<p>I feel sorry for you all.
And I’m not being sarcastic or mean. I really truly pity you. I have amazing parents. Yes, we may get into fights, but at the end of the day they ALWAYS have my back. They’ve sacrificed everything for me. I couldn’t love them more.</p>
<p>I only hope you all are better to your kids.</p>
<p>I don’t hate my parents, I just don’t get along with them. I decided to move out. Much less stressful and our relationship has improved because we aren’t around eachother all of the time. Get an apartment at school, stay there during the summer or move in with friends from home during breaks. You may have to work FT but it’s worth it if you “hate” your parents.</p>
<p>I don’t exactly hate my parents. Just sometimes don’t get along with them. Like when I wanted to learn to fly, I wanted to do sport pilot training (sport pilot is mainly flying for fun). Reluctantly, they said yes and my stepfather has been paying for a couple of months. I stopped training in September of last year because there was no more sport pilot training in my area. I took one flying lesson with my instructor in January before he got killed in a small plane crash in February. Now, I miss flying and wanted to fly again but my parents said “your flight instructor died” or something like that. They’ve refuse sometimes to let me go flying and maybe try and talk me out of flying.</p>
<p>There are some sport pilot flight schools down in Florida and I could get my license in at least 2 weeks. I was considering that but they won’t even let me go down there.</p>
<p>My only hope was to wait until sport pilot training comes back to NJ later on. I wanted to go flying so badly but my mom says no, unless I can hold my new job at Walgreens for 3 months. So sometimes, I hate them for not letting me take flying lessons.</p>
<p>i have no reason to, so why would i?</p>
<p>“Hate” is not a strong enough word for what I feel for my father. </p>
<p>In short, I regularly Google his name to see if he’s died yet so that I can collect on his insurance and buy a new pair if shoes. </p>
<p>If that doesn’t describe our relationship, I don’t know what will.</p>
<p>I don’t hate my parents but I had a miserable childhood for which they were responsible. My dad was irrationally rageful, controlling, and clinically OCD to the point where I was virtually imprisoned until I was 18 and my mom was tacitly complicit. I tried hard to maintain a normal life, which was only possible through lying daily about literally everything. I can’t let that go anytime soon. I think they think that paying for an Ivy League education will make amends. It won’t.</p>
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I’m sorry for being offensive. I’m Asian too, so I wasn’t trying to be offensive 
I just wanted to note that Asian parents are probably more strict.</p>
<p>I like the idea of looking to the future. Oh and a song [YouTube</a> - Cat’s In The Cradle](<a href=“http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OqwKfgLaeA]YouTube”>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OqwKfgLaeA)</p>