<p>Coming from a girl, just ask her if she wants to chill.</p>
<p>The worst that could happen is that she says no. And even then, it’s not like you’ll have to see her again!</p>
<p>i think that when we like someone it can be difficult to be very objective and so a person can
misread friendliness for romantic interest. Having said that, I think that the smart people (not me), learn how to politely and directly keep an ‘eye on the target’ and make the attempt one way or the other. I think that we have little control over who ‘likes’ us romantically. If you take 20 swings at the plate you have a better chance than if you take 5 swings. May be good practice to be more forward and get used to some acceptance and some rejection in different cases. I really hope that you get what you are hoping for. Good Luck</p>
<p>I’ll see what she does on Tuesday, and then decide how i’ll make my move. I genuinely think she likes me at least a little</p>
<p>sounds like a good idea, hope to hear back from you with good news</p>
<p>Unfortunately this was the final day of class. I had to turn the paper into my teacher’s mailbox, so I didn’t see her :(. Hopefully she’s in some of my classes next semester.</p>
<p>do you know anyone who might know her? i see nothing wrong with having a mutual acquaintance tell her you are interested. i think that some would say that is too passive, but i never saw a problem with it. when does your next semester start?</p>
<p>We don’t have any mutual acquaintances, unfortunately. The semester starts January 14th.</p>
<p>if the class was small and the teacher liked you he/she might be able to offer you some help in the situation.</p>
<p>The teacher didn’t even know my name. He didn’t know anyone’s. He would just call us dude. The class was probably around 30 people. The problem is that break just started, so I won’t see him anymore.</p>
<p>I learned kind of late that getting in good shape makes a lot of difference, So that will increase your chances across the board. I would make that a high priority during break and long after. I think healthy and fit like a swimmer or the way a boxer gets is a good way to go… I would also walk up to her if you see her at school and try to strike up a conversation. I think if you wait for the ‘perfect moment’, it might not come. I think either someone likes you or they don’t, so that how or what you say isn’t really that important; just that you get the message across that you are interested. Just my 2 cents. I am really cheering for you by the way. PS the ‘dude’ notion is really ridiculous and funny.</p>
<p>Haha I know right? What a lazy way to get out of knowing our names. I have been going to the gym for the last year. I’m 6’3 and 170 pounds. I’m definitely toned and I ran cross country throughout high school. I play basketball a lot and I’m pretty athletic in general. I take fitness seriously. I really appreciate you rooting for me, I’ll make sure to notify you if I do see her again. It means a lot to me man.</p>