<p>I don’t work at Colgate. I didn’t have a perfect experience there either. There were plenty of things that were inconvenient or didn’t work out - like not getting into a class I wanted freshman year. Getting a warning and fine for a candle in our apartment that we didn’t have (I spoke to the Dean, they dropped it). Or having a random person put into our apartment my senior spring, because we had a vacancy. We protested to Residential Life that we were both seniors doing honors theses, but too bad, there was a housing shortage. It sucked, but we dealt with it, and everything worked out just fine.</p>
<p>I’m not sure what you meant about “fitting in is important” to me. None of the issues you have with the school really have anything to do with that, and it was and is pretty much the opposite for me, actually…</p>
<p>'Gate card: they don’t provide a balance every time you use it because it’s like a debit card - your current balance in your checking account isn’t displayed on every receipt you get, and you wouldn’t want it to be. There are computers free to use right in the Coop, so you can always check your balance there. Expecting college students to be able to keep an eye on their balance through the website seems quite reasonable, and there are no overdraft fees like a bank. By the time they’re 17 or 18, this really shouldn’t be difficult for a student who is able to get into a school like Colgate.</p>
<p>I believe the room clean-up fees are somewhat automated, and administered by the Residential Life office. They’re there not to get your money, but to keep people from doing things they shouldn’t be doing.</p>
<p>My experience with the Study Abroad office was fine, though I went through a Colgate program, so I don’t know about the process for non-Colgate programs.</p>
<p>Many of us worked over the winter, and I never said he had to do the same job. Even when unemployment is high, retailers hire seasonal help for the winter, and being back before other college students would give him an advantage finding a job. It’s an unfortunate circumstance, certainly, but… that’s life. Not everything always works out the way we would like. If the program can only take him in the fall and if Colgate can only fit him on campus in the spring, what are they supposed to do? They can’t just make exceptions for everyone who asks, because then they’d have 200 juniors on campus in the fall and 550 in the spring and nowhere for them to live.</p>
<p>I’m not sure why you would be dealing with the dean and not your son. I don’t even know who the Dean would be that he would deal with for Study Abroad, much less how good they are at returning calls. Sorry.</p>
<p>In general Colgate is actually pretty generous - they don’t charge for printing or have page limits. Frank is all-you-can-eat, a really good deal for those with big appetites. You have different options of meal plans after your first year, so my junior and senior year I had the 5-meals per week plan and didn’t have to pay for food I wasn’t eating. On-campus housing is guaranteed for 4 years and is maintained for free - you can call B&G and they’ll fix things for you, no cost - something I really miss now that I’m in the real world. Free storage over the summer for your stuff. You can have a car on campus all four years, for free. Free transportation (cruiser). These are all things that were not always available at many of the colleges I visited. There are so many other ways that they could get money out of students. But they don’t.</p>
<p>I really don’t think Colgate is out to get you. As with any institution, there’s a bureaucracy and policies and sometimes they can’t always do what you want them to. Yes, they need money to function, but they’re not going to make a profit through $25 fines for not cleaning up your room when you move out.</p>