<p>lotsof, Building a college list requires equal parts optimism, pessimism and realism (AKA, reach, match and safety). Don’t fret too much over which are reaches and which are matches. </p>
<p>Concentrate on finding at least one, preferably two, safeties that the thought of attending doesn’t bring on hives – in your son or you. Researching, visiting and settling on lovable (likeable?) safeties is a challenge, but they are out there. Keep at it until your son is satisfied. Do this first, then apply to as many reaches and matches as your son can handle. </p>
<p>I have mixed advice on the SAT. My son’s scores increased 100 points (out of 1600) after he took a prep course and repeated the test. Sometimes just getting used to the format is all it takes. If your son does this and is still disappointed in the results – DO NOT worry about it. Some kids are just not good test takers. His grades and rank are stellar and this is enough. </p>
<p>No matter what he should take the SATIIs. His scores won’t hurt him and not having them may unnecessarily restrict his choices.</p>
<p>In my opinion, what’s going to get him in or keep him out of selective LACs won’t be his scores. He needs to devote a high level of energy on putting together an application that aptly conveys his personality. He has some interesting elements – martial arts, metal band, international experience – which could add up to more than the sum of his parts. His essays, recommendations, resume need to reinforce his total persona. Small colleges especially like multifaceted kids. He should think about what he can contribute to the campus community.</p>
<p>If he likes Dartmouth, Wesleyan, Middlebury, Amherst, then I’d suggest taking a look at Bowdoin, Skidmore, Hamilton, Kenyon. Wesleyan seems to be somewhat different in character from the others, but still has a good degree of overlap. It was my son’s second choice, but he ended up at Williams.</p>
<p>If you’re likely to pay full freight, then I’d recommend that he choose a school for early decision. I believe it helps a lot at small LACs.</p>