For everyone deferred from their first choice school: are you still in love with the school to which you applied early? Have you found a new school to love? Or are you scared of falling in love with another school and being rejected/waitlisted?
<p>I've never allowed myself to fall in love with any school. I'll wait and see what happens in April first.</p>
<p>fell out of love. esp after i heard they got 3,000 more applicants this year.</p>
<p>I've pretty much accepted that I won't be attending my 1st choice, no matter how much I adored it...</p>
<p>it's probably best to move on, because it seems like lots of deferrees on this site think they have a 2nd chance, when a lot of times, deferring is a nice way to say we'll probably reject you in the spring. Of course not for everbody or every school, but I think too many people on cc have false hopes- better to get in when you didn't expect it than to get rejected when you thought you would</p>
<p>I really like all 18 of the schools I applied to so im ok wherever i go</p>
<p>maharani and ainsley...if you don't mind, what were your first choice schools? </p>
<p>Ivy Leaguer, I disagree...schools can be like homes or even people...for some people, myself included, it's not hard to fall in love with a school...and fyi, just because you fall in love with a school, it doesn't mean that you don't have a life</p>