Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look Older

surfcity - I’ve seen the woman from goodbyecroptop on my Insta feed a few times - I like her jeans outfits.

Veryhappy - I found extrapetitite a number of years ago when I went back to work and was looking for professional outfit guidence. I’m not as tiny as her, but I was having trouble finding my size in regular mall stores at the time. Agree - her style is elegant.
Edit to add: I jumped on the extrapetite site this am (first time in a few years) - and I really love the classic looks she has!! Particularly now that with WFH I’m in the office less, her casual, elegant outfit suggestions are great!

CountingDown - I daily use an eyebrow brush (like mascara for eyebrows). I’m too nervous to get a professional tint near my eyes. I’ve found Benefit (at Ulta) to be the best… Site Search | Ulta Beauty

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anomander - thanks for those tips for guys. Aguadecoco - my hub is similar - he is willing to spend much, much more than me on clothes. Likes Tommy Bahama, etc. I’ll buy a nice pair of pants at Express, but love my consignment store finds. He would never! :laughing:

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For those who didn’t see any video of the Depp/Heard trial and want a giggle related to eyeglasses and fashion, google “Dr Curry’s glasses”. She’s an expert witness, probably mid-40’s, who had the internet swooning every time she put on her reading glasses.

I wear glasses to drive, without them I will be 10 years younger, 26 at most, but then I have matching jewelries, so add back 10 years. It’s a wash, lol.

I actually think that my glasses make me look younger, they cover up the dark circles under my eyes (which I have always had even when I was young)

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Her glasses look an awful lot like my distance glasses from Warby Parker. I need glasses to drive and when I watch movies and then I need readers for reading. I have many pairs of cute prescription sunglasses for driving and I finally ordered a pair of prescription readers this week to replace the ones I normally buy in packs of 3.

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This is giving me very “Green Eggs and Ham” vibes :laughing:

I’m sure I break so many of these rules. I wear leggings all the time on the weekends. I am older than 45, slim and have always had a great figure, by luck. I also wear shorts, bikinis, and have been known to shop fast fashion (H&M) from time to time. I have a slight obsession with trendy footwear. Where I live, I am not an outlier on this. Many women here are fit and fashionable, so there doesn’t seem to be an age limit to wearing certain things.

As for hair, I agree that keeping it colored too dark looks terrible (IMO). I actually think going gray naturally looks better than most color treated hair (on someone who is obviously covering gray). I also think hairstyle is one of those things that can make you look older - either wearing it too long (especially if it is thinning and/or gray) or too short (granny helmet).

Edited to add: I love, love, love funky glasses. They (and my mechanical watch) are my favorite accessories!

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I have shorter hair and always have. I think it puts me at a certain age but I truly look horrible in longer hair. I’ve tried to grow it out and give up. Because it’s so not flattering. I have very thick wavy hair that grows reasonably fast. With a small face.

Glasses look great when you don’t have thick lenses. It’s a fact of life but not that cute

And I don’t think that leggings are that aging. They are a classic and a staple. So what if some people don’t like them, there are plenty that do.

I personally think leggings should be thick enough to not show cellulite :wink: but that’s about all

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Never saw her before. She’s gorgeous, glasses off or on.

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She definitely looks much better with glasses, I didn’t watch this trial, but googling says she has a practice in Orange County.

I’ve never been all that interested in trendy styles or high end accessories. Just like getting clothes/shoes I like (with a high priority on comfort) that look good on me. But I will have to say it’s been fun to take a look at the various blogs mentioned here.

I especially liked extrapetite, even though I am almost twice her age and not nearly as slim hipped. Was surprised that the cute recommended short are only $45 at Nordstrom (honestly didn’t know anything was that affordable there).

I’ll be keeping an eye out for a MaturePearPetite fashion blog :wink:

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If you hit the right sale… there is usually a lot of good stuff at decent prices/quality. Their own branded clothes are good quality, too.

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Agreed. And that stands true at many department stores these days. That actually brought me back to shopping the “big stores” more often. I still like to shop small and support local when I can, but I also like a good sale!

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The Nordstrom $45 shorts mentioned on extrapetite blog were not even on sale.
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/soft-pleated-shorts/6540272?siteid=QFGLnEolOWg-OyIG7dRd8u.tMsrUvPoJGA&utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=QFGLnEolOWg&utm_content=1&utm_term=747642&utm_channel=low_nd_affiliates&sp_source=rakuten&sp_campaign=QFGLnEolOWg

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I bought something on the half yearly sale recently, I had a do to go.

The extrapetite.com lady also seems like a really nice person.

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To the person that had the thoughtless bootcamp teacher: Let me say what she should have said… “Well Done!!”

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@Jolynne_Smyth - does the Gimme Brow also help with brows that need “taming”?

@FallGirl I use a brow product daily. I’ve tried different brands and types. This is one I find is good to tame https://www.sephora.com/product/dipbrow-pomade-P384060?skuId=1578699&icid2=products%20grid:p384060:product
Definitely buy the brush product that has a wand at one end and a application brush on the other.
I also really like the brow kit from Boy Brow + Brow Flick Duo
I don’t really wear makeup but the color on the brows is essential as I’ve gotten older. I also like a tinted moisturizer to give me some color. I like Jane Iredale from both her regular line and her Glo line.

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Thanks @mom60. I think that’s what I need.