<p>We brought our family to the college to get first born son settled in on move in day. He soon realized he forgot his calculator, desk lamp, and the Williams ID card holder the policeman gave him an hour before. While his dad was putting together a floor lamp in his dorm, my daughter was sweeping under his dorm bed for bugs, and my other teenage son was surfing the new college mac computer, I took a walk with son to look for a lamp. We ran around for twenty minutes, couldn’t find one, and on the way back to the dorm he said, “Mom, you aren’t going to the floor meeting at 4:00 meeting are you?” I said, no, silly, we will just check and see if your dorm room is all set, say goodbye and you can begin the meeting with your floor mates. Somehow, when we walked into the living room on the way to his dorm, many of his floor mates were sitting around the living room. He sat down and I, feeling like an idiot, kept walking to his dorm. (I still had fifteen minutes with him…***).</p>
<p>His room looked great. His little sister found three old withered spiders and an ant/termite? We gathered the trash and a junior advisor gave us a two minute warning (gentle hint for hit the road). I said the to the JA, could you get our son because he kind of blew us off (laughing, fakely, I was a little mad as my time was limited!). He nervously came into his room, hugged us very, very quickly and I told him he better head off to the meeting. But, he was already on his way there before I finished the sentence. </p>
<p>I think the saddest, most pitiful, and somewhat funny vision I will always remember were the parents, with fridge boxes, comforter bags, and other garbage, slowly walking to their cars with the junk in their hands. Zombies heading to the cars. </p>
<p>On the ride home, in a weakened state, I told my daughter that yes, she could have a rat. I walked into my son’s room when I got home, sat on his bed, looked at the messy floor and then realized he had left me with this rare mantid-type bug that needs rount the clock care. I poured myself a large wine, got a large net, and spent some time trying to catch food for the thing by sweeping the net in the grass at night.</p>
<p>Later, I checked to see if my first, huge monthly tuition payment had been pulled from my account. I discovered that somebody had used my debit card number to make over $1100 dollars of charges. I spent the rest of the night dealing with that and hoping that first payment didn’t bounce!</p>
<p>Now, two days out, we have heard nothing. I think he is now backpacking but I really hope I hear from him when they get back (on Tuesday). This was my introverted little boy who now cannot REMEMBER TO CALL HIS MOTHER!!</p>
<p>At least I know he will call when he runs out of cash because we ran out of time to set up the bank account and he only has 200 bucks :)</p>