Fitness, Nutrition and Health- All Welcome (Hardcore and “Light”)

Back at it today. It’s on/off sprinkling here, so another home gym workout today.

After a 5-minute warmup (increasing in intensity) on the assault bike. My strength session was the bench press, which has always been a strong movement for me. Again, since it’s a deload week, I approached PR (90+%) and then a few back-off sets.

The HIIT ended up being an 18 1/2 min effort of alternating DB clean and jerks, pull-ups and GHD sit-ups. And I finished up with a fast (for me) mile run.

These deload weeks are strange for me. The volume is less and I feel like I’m not doing enough. ?‍♂️

Hopefully, I can go to the track tomorrow.

Does anyone here have a good recommendation for abdomen exercises that aren’t too hard to do at home? I’m looking for something to make the part of my abdomen below my belly button better.
Thanks

^ mine are all on the Beachbody app so I won’t be of much help. But, if you Google 10 min abs a lot pop up. If you’re not doing anything now, probably any of them will be ok to help strengthen them. However, if you’re looking for them to look good, unfortunately diet is the key. My core is always pretty strong. But in order for them to show, I’ve got to be really good diet wise. And even then, good is relative. My genetics aren’t good for a 6 pack, but I can get some good oblique definition.

Good old pushups and planks!

@1214mom

I don’t do any direct ab exercises, but can testify that deadlifts & squats have really added to the musculature of my trunk.

Sadly (?), I would need plastic surgery — “tummy tuck” — to see significant definition. Thanks kids! :wink:

There’s an old axiom in exercise and the gym. Abs are made in the kitchen.

Some exercises off the top of my head: V-ups, planks, sit-ups, mountain climbers, bear walks, Russian twists, leg raises, etc.

I did a 40+ minute work out yesterday, plus about 10 minutes on the exercise bike. Today’s exercise was 1 hour of pulling up knotweed from the local pond in the morning, (DH got seriously sweaty, but I did not get as much of a workout), and a pleasant stroll around the pond in the evening. Tomorrow will be a m ore serious exercise day.

How are you all staying so motivated?

@HMom16 - I am a person who embraces the “normal” things when life is crazy. For me, regular running,walking and yoga keep some of the normal in my life. I feel better after fitness activity and remind myself that it keeps my body strong. It’s also something to do now that so many things to do are not available.

It’s still hard- I admit that. I mostly miss the people - chatting with my yoga teacher and others in my classes before/after class. I miss running with my running buddies. The training program I coached in last year (and would have coached this year) is not happening and I admit I’m really sad about that. I keep telling myself we will get through this and there will be normal again.

Everyone is different, but that is how I stay motivated. It’s hard. Hugs.

I can’t actually do anything right now since I’m recovering from a running stress fracture, but I get asked that question all the time. Honestly, I think it is easier for someone like me to be consistent and not let my foot off the pedal since running (competitive) and fitness is such an essential part of who I am. I would no sooner not do my run or whatever exercise I was able to do than not brush my teeth or go to my job! If I didn’t have that ingrained in me…yeah…how to stay motivated.

I think you have to think about (1) how good you will feel after you do it (whatever “it” might be- a walk, yoga, upper body exercises) and know that you have taken that step in the right direction and done something for yourself (2) long term health and fitness goals- i.e. have better balance so you don’t fall and break something, manage your weight for health and enjoyment of daily activities (3) mental well being. It’s all so individual and it is SO easy to let it slip. I’m not pretending it isn’t.

We’ve said many times, and this is SO true- the hardest part is that first step, or getting that yoga mat out, or finding that online resource. Just take that first step. Many of us runners lie to ourselves- “I’ll just go out there and do one mile!” Once we are out there, the run tends to happen- and almost always more than just the mile.

Stay around here and WE will motivate you! I think especially right now, we need movement for mental health.

Truthful talk here. I’m the opposite of the super motivated exercisers even though I do some form of workout 6 days a week. Can’t truly say there is ever a time I’m raring to go and can’t wait. Instead, I tend to come up with excuse after excuse after excuse about why I shouldn’t workout today. Some favorites: it looks like it might rain, I’m feeling a little off, it would be so much fun to do _____ (anything!) instead, my asthma is worse, I do not want to get sweaty, and on and on. If tomorrow researchers discovered a pill that kept us all physically and functionally fit without having to get off our couch I would consider selling my grandmother for access to that pill.

But… there is no magic pill and I know how much better I feel when I actually make myself exercise. Both immediately after and just in general throughout the day afterwards. I like being able to do activities with my kids and random adventures. And I’m hoping to avoid some of the health issues that run in my family.

So about 90% of the time I lie to myself. Flat out lie. “Just go and do 10 minutes. After that, you can stop if it’s raining/you don’t feel well/whatever.” The interesting thing is that once I’ve made myself start there has never been a time when I’ve actually quit after the promised 10 minutes. There are (rare) days when I actually don’t feel well after the 10 minutes and do a slower or easier workout, but I’ve never felt awful enough to quit once I started moving. And most of the time after the 10 minutes the workout actually feels pretty good, better than expected. But that’s not surprising given I always expect to die during the workout; low expectations are easy to exceed.

And here’s the real kicker - I’ve never once felt worse after a workout. If I can make myself move and do something (even if it’s slower or easier than planned) then 100% of the time I feel better physically when I’m done. So that reinforcement helps.

If you’re just starting out, you’re going to feel awkward. Things are going to hurt. You will have more excuses not to than learned reinforcement. So for the first few months you have to use whatever tools work for you to keep you going through the bad first few months. Tell your friends so they’ll keep you accountable, get a buddy, pay for a trainer (if that’s in your budget), make a literal appointment on your calendar and lay out your clothes the night before. Whatever gets you going for the first few months. After those first few months hopefully you’ve developed a habit or at least experienced some of those moments where you feel better to give you the reinforcement to go on.

Just start. And don’t stop. Simple, but not easy. :slight_smile:

Oh, and for me - variety helps. If I had to do the same workouts for the rest of my life, there’s no way I’d survive. I mix in all sorts of things. For a while, I’ll run more often and maybe even increase distance for a “race”, for a while I’ll focus on stairs seeing how many I can do in a session, for a while maybe I’ll take up paddleboarding, for a while I’ll get a block of some sort of class I’ve never done before. I’ll take my kids for a walk and we’ll climb on things we find. Whatever, just mix it up.

@HMom16

I am having trouble with motivation.

I’ve noticed I am not as focused or concentrated when I’m lifting. My mind is a whirl & distractions intrude easily.

I shortened a training session on Friday & skipped Saturday.

I’ll get back on schedule Tuesday and see how it goes.

The volume sets (less weight & more reps/sets) are easier to knock out than the intensity sets (PRs, more weight & less reps/sets).

I feel heavy in the heart, akin to grieving. It is what it is.

One thing that keeps me motivated is that I’ve always exercised solo. So I’m not missing a class or friends - I love the time by myself - just me and my music or podcasts.

I also thrive on routine and a schedule - when I wake up I want a plan. Movement just makes me feel good. Sitting in a chair for too long does not.

I also physically cannot handle NOT being active. Like if I saw myself gaining weight or feeling more flabby (notice I say MORE flabby - I have enough flab as it is even though I exercise daily) my self confidence would PLUMMET. I am very driven by how I feel, look , etc.

If you are someone who puts it off all day I say get up each morning and do something - just for 15 minutes. A walk. A bike. Whatever. You will have so much more mental space during the day if you don’t have that conscious wasting time and energy over when/if/how you are going to do some exercise done. Just do it!

I want to clarify- MOST days I do NOT want to go out the door for my run. I don’t spring from bed at 5:30 am and say “Oh boy! Let’ go out in the dark for a run!” I’ll echo that I ALWAYS feel better afterwards and I never regret it (well, maybe if I screw up an injury like I’ve done recently). My serious running friends mainly are the same- yes, we love running and it’s part of what defines us, but getting out the door is rarely very easy.

That does make me feel a little better. I’ve always assumed I was a very lazy slacker at heart but knowing others feel this way is comforting.

What @MomofWildChild says is true. Getting out of bed can be the hardest step!

This. It’s almost never easy. But I do the “just one mile” trick with my brain all the time.

Also social media helps me. I post on more than one fitness oriented private FB groups as well as here and reading what others post and feeling I need to do something too helps. Peer pressure I guess- in a good way.

I have a friend who is 80 and one of the top age group runners in the country. He has written several books about his athletic adventures and is active on Twitter. I wish I could find this one column that he wrote- he says he isn’t even sure he LIKES running the majority of the time. He does it anyway, because of those moments where everything clicks or he can enjoy some natural beauty or push himself to limits he didn’t know he could reach. But the majority of the time- nope! He does it anyway!

For me, variety is the spice of life. My workouts are constantly varied, which works for me. I can’t have a routine like some folks. One of my workout shirts has the phrase “routine is the enemy.”

In fact, I actually use T-shirt’s with various motivational phrases for some of my motivation. Another t-shirt that I wear has the phrase “nobody cares, train harder.” I have several (understatement) others. When I pick the shirt up and put it on, it helps get me going at the gym. Also, my other motivation is to live longer and to not be a future burden to my kids.

Lastly, another part of motivation is simply vanity.

It’s raining hard right now. My plan was to go to the track and do a workout of power cleans and running. I haven’t picked up the rower from the gym yet, so if the rain continues throughout the day, then I’ll have to sub in the assault bike.

My laziness is a far greater force than my vanity apparently. All my workout friends still tease me about a conversation we had a while ago. Paraphrase:

Friend: Ugh. Things are starting to move south. What exercise do you do for your butt?

Me: Nothing.

Friend: Yes you do! I know you do squats, lunges, all that stuff.

Me: I only do enough to be fit, I really couldn’t care less what my ass actually looks like.

Friend: Wha…?

Me: My butt is the only part of me that I can’t see. If I don’t have to look at it, I’m not gonna worry about it. I have enough to worry about with the stuff I can see.