<p>I have people I wont use their names to not be rude and they are "friends" but my bf and I wanted some alone time since i will gone for family stuff for a week potential. Howeber these "friends" kept on calling to hang out. Please bear in mind my bf and i were on a break weeks earlier and want to put more effort into our relationship so their calling does not help this goal to be achieved or to be worked on in the first place. In the end I gave in and decided to go along and bf was cool either way as long as he saw me. What would someone else do in my situation where your "friends" did not respect u wanting to hang out with your bf or gf over them and wanted a night off to chill when they had been cleaning for a week and just wanted to relax.</p>
<p>Well they are not putting a gun to your head missy, sometimes you gotta put your bf and yourself first and put the other friends second if that is what you think you will want. If they are really your friends they’d understand, especially since they’d do it in a second if it were them!</p>
<p>That actually made my eyes cross when I read it. </p>
<p>Mabe u shuld spellcheck “before” u post and use complet senteces an grammer so other ppl can undrstnd???////</p>
<p>And I would just tell them what you told us; that you wanted to spend some time alone with your boyfriend. If you don’t tell people what you want, you can’t expect them to magically ‘know’ you want to be left alone and get mad when they don’t get it.</p>
<p>Simple advice. Turn your cell phone off when you’re trying to spend time with your boyfriend.</p>
<p>Just because someone calls doesn’t mean you have to answer.</p>
<p>I constantly duck calls.</p>
<p>Do what you want to do, whether that’s go with your BF or hangout with your other friends. If your friends get mad at you for hanging out with your BF, let them deal with it. If they get over it, cool. If they don’t, find new friends.</p>
<p>You need to get over that you’re even worried about this. I know the type of people that you mean. Actually, it isn’t even a type, it’s more a phase they are going through.</p>
<p>Don’t cater to it. You’re allowed to have a life separate from any friend and on the flip side you’re allowed to see you friends instead of your boyfriend when you want. They know this intellectually, it’s an emotional reaction that is telling them they want you to be with them NOW. It’s their problem, don’t make it yours.</p>