<p>oh no I’ve been not-so-subtly insulted online! I better go weep in a corner from the harshness of Mr. Stud over here. lol, what are we, 12? 
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<p>Ah, CC…</p>
<p>I really wasn’t trying to insult you. I have no idea what you actually look like. Those were just my observations about girls in general. There are exceptions.</p>
<p>Good game = girls gaming you</p>
<p>there are a minority of women that genuinely don’t care about looks. I have an attractive female friend who told me that she would happily date a trans gender person, along with a person of the same or opposite sex. Someone’s physiology is simply not relevant to her, even when it comes to sexual organs. I have not met any men who feel that way.</p>
<p>Anyhow, one thing that’s really important is social proof. Having attractive female friends really helps to signal that you’re not a creep.</p>
<p>^ I’ve noticed that too. There are some guys that are just horrendously ugly and/or fat and I feel so sorry for them because I’m sure they’ll never get a girlfriend. And then I find out that they do have one, and I’m just like, whoa, that’s nice. Surprising, but nice. I personally won’t go for a guy unless he’s at least moderately attractive objectively and totally hot in my opinion.</p>
<p>^ You’re differentiating between how attractive YOU find him and how attractive “others” or “your friends” find him (this would be your ‘objectively’ criteria - as if that even exists). The fact that you care about the latter shows that you’re insecure about your attractiveness and consider a guy/ boyfriend to be some ornament or fashion accessory that you simply wear around, to prove to others that you can find a man.</p>
<p>Then again, you are a girl who is 19 or 20. This is pretty much the sad norm these days.</p>
<p>^ No, what I was trying to say (albeit somewhat incoherently apparently 
) was that no guy who is not at least “moderately” attractive objectively is going to seem extremely hot to my taste. Taste only goes so far; if he’s just totally ugly, then there’s no way that I, through my rosy glasses of affection, could see him as attractive.</p>
<p>And I’m 17 actually, haha.</p>
<p>Oh no… JAILBAIT. Better watch out, guys.</p>
<p>Hahaha, no worries, I’m not an abusadora or anything. Turning 18 this month anyway.</p>