Have you tried getting involved in non-Greek clubs/activities on campus? If you feel the school is a bad fit and have tried everything then as a last resort consider transferring. But from what I read, I think your negative attitude and desire to compare your school to BC is standing in the way of your college experience so it may not be very different at another school.
@gomocs13 I have to say, reading this thread again, I am sensing something more going on. Bring rejected from college is just one of many rejections you will have in life. You might not get the job, or the apartment, or the house, or the girl (or boy). On the other hand, you might end up with an even better job, or a better apartment, or a better house, or an awesome partner you would not have had, if your original choice had come through. That is life and you have to accept it. I think you should examine what this is really about. You MUST have had some good reason for choosing your current college, so remember what it is. And re Greek life, there is an old saying…if you can’t beat 'em, join 'em.