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<p>This is false in so many ways. But you are correct in saying that neither gender appreciates having people “thrown” at them.</p>
<p>Well alot of people think that by simply asking someone out or introducing yourself to them is considered to be “throwing” yourself and/or desperate. I’ve found that when I don’t work for things, they come to me. When I do make a concerted effort, it is almost always an epic fail, even if it is just striking up a conversation. Most of the guys, if not all, have just not appreciated me or were unresponsive, and one gets to the point where it isn’t even worth it. </p>
<p>So I once was one of those “spineless” girls, and being one of those “spineless” girls has gotten me a bf, while being one of the more “confident, assertive” ones has gotten me nowhere. Oh well.</p>
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<p>I dunno, I guess you found out it’s hard work?</p>
<p>Nope, I’m not usually very shy…but that doesn’t seem like something i’d ever do.</p>
<p>i’ll use the same logic as above and say that if a girl doesnt approach me and ask me out them she isn’t even worth going out in the first place: she needs to be aggresive!</p>
<p>I dont know what makes women think they are to be approached and asked out!</p>
<p>someone mentioned this earlier (i think), nothing would EVER get done with this logic. the human race would become extinct. the next mammal on the food chain would rule the earth.</p>
<p>no, the human race would not become extinct. the real alpha males would follow their dominant nature as a male and go get the women and reproduce. the betas would probably die off.</p>
<p>politically correct or not, that’s the way it is boys. men and women are, in fact, different in very fundamental ways. get used to it and shell up.</p>
<p>I have to agree</p>
<p>I don’t see why not. Of course I wouldn’t ask just anyone…</p>
<p>There are two instances I possibly would:
- The guy and I are good friends, and he is kind of shy but I know he likes me
- As a dare, though I’d have to be attracted to him first
But I don’t think I’d ever randomly walk up to a really hot guy and just start a conversation and ask him out.</p>
<p>Sometimes i’ll ask a guy if he wants to go grab some drinks or a meal or something, but I would expect the guy to ask to be my boyfriend.</p>
<p>I say stop asking for girls opinions on cc…half of them probably haven’t kissed a guy before…just sayin.</p>
<p>I asked my ex out because he was too shy. But then again I broke up with him in a week in a half because he was too shy. </p>
<p>It’s best to just show interest. Would you really want a guy that wasn’t a little bit confident?</p>
<p>I don’t see what’s wrong with girls asking. I usually did.</p>
<p>This is pathetic. </p>
<p>This is the 21st century, right?</p>
<p>There’s nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy. Get over yourselves.</p>
<p>there’s nothing wrong with it but don’t expect it or think that’s the way it should be. that’s simply wrong. men and women are different in many respects and it is and has always been the man’s role to present himself to a woman/chase a woman while the woman chooses from her available men for the best mate.</p>
<p>People get too caught up in the “rules” of dating/gender, etc. thanks in part to useless information in trashy magazines.</p>
<p>If you like someone, just let him or her know…</p>
<p>^^ Then wouldn’t the woman be doing the asking, by that logic?</p>
<p>Just kinda rub your junk on her trunk and see how she responds.</p>
<p>Like, “knock into her” and make her drop her books, and then when she bends over to pick them up, “accidentally” push your junk in her trunk and see her reaction.</p>
<p>Bam. No awkward “talking” to be done.</p>
<p>^ Her reaction? A slap across your face.</p>
<p>I would if I knew he was into me too!</p>