<p>hmmm.... nice convo going on.... :)</p>
<p>Girls are often quite irrational. When I was in Korea in my senior year, I had a big crush on this one norwegian chick...but she really wasnt interested in hooking up at all, and she wasnt interested in anybody else. Now I'm back in norway on a gap year and she just dropped a line on msn asking me whats up and all, and in the convo i told her il be in oslo for taking an SAT. Next thing I know is that as soon as I get off at the train station in oslo a few weeks later, i see this girl right there and she's so obviously trying to get me to date and stuff. I'm kinda like, what the hell? We now live 300 miles apart and she wants to date? Its weird...</p>
<p>Yeah. See the thing for me is, she didn't feel sorry for breaking up with me. When my friend talked to her, my gf told her that she did not feel sorry for breaking up with me, and she only pretended to feel sorry so it wouldn't hurt my feelings.</p>
<p>Hmmmm... interesting comments.</p>
<p>I find some of your opinions differ, sometimes greatly, from my own.</p>
<p>I have to disagree with the previous user about brunettes flirting too much or being less humble. I don't believe in any stereotype and I have to say my opinion is that that is as false as the satement that blondes have more fun.</p>
<p>"All girls are psychos"
I don't understand your reasoning. I don't find their is any difference in how a girl's attractiveness could have on her personality.</p>
<p>I do admit though girls can be contradiction sometimes. But I personally don't appreciate it when others aren't straightforward or have unrealistically high expectations for others. I try to be as straightforwrd as possible to people of every sex. Guys, thjough, can be difficulkt to explain as well. There are times where boys may seem to shut you out and refuse to talk to you about what's going on. Excuse my poor use of sources, but I feel it's necessary to illustrate the example, how Annie shuts out Padme in Star Wars. </p>
<p>Ok, wow I'm using star wars refferences- I am a geek! Hahahahah!</p>
<p>I guess us boys don't talk about emotions more beacuse we want to be tough. I never really talk about something if I am mad. I greatly dislike my town and I am always mad when I go home beacuse of this but my mom does not know I dislike the town so much. Girls are really good at that emotional business. Even when I was on Kairos (week long religious retreat... it was awsome) they told all of us (all boys) to cry and be emotional but originally we did not pour out our emotions when we were susposed to.</p>
<p>What do I do about her. I still can't get over her. I feel like she's completely ruined my life. She's put me in this state that i haven't been able to get out of. I've lost my taste in music, movies, and I can't enjoy things like I used to. Its just I can't believe what she did to me. I thought about all the time we spent together, and I realized now that everything she ever said to me was a lie. I just can't take it.</p>
<p>So what? She is just being a jerk dude. Forget her and remember that you will defintey meet a great girl that will not do that to you. It's happened to me and many other guys like us. I just tell my self that she does not know what she will be missing.</p>
<p>numberone, dont worry, Girls are like buses, one goes another comes ;)
:p <strong>sorry girls, just a lame statement</strong> :p</p>
<p>I guess so. What do I do if she tries to come back to me, or tries to talk to me and tells me that she is sorry?</p>
<p>Ummm, tell her to go **** herself?</p>
<p>thats what i was pretty much thinking about doing.</p>
<p>numberone, you'll do yourself a favor to just forget about her and move on... you're still really young, and now is not the time to get all wrapped up and heart broken over the opposite sex... you'll have more than half your life to do that. Additionally, women are the most attracted to men who just do their thing...set goals for themselves, work like a dog to accomplish those goals, and don't let any woman get in the way... because these men are "hard to get" and women like trying to get a guy they CAN NOT have, especially when he's humble, hard working, and accomplishing noteworthy goals. No guy ever made something of himself by attaching himself to a single woman and letting her rule his life.... failures are made this way.</p>
<p>Hey numberone,</p>
<p>I've been through this situation with a guy. I felt horrible after, so I feel your pain. As a girl I'll tell you, yes you'll eventually find a girl you'll love a million times more and who will love you back. These things tend to happen when you least expect it. Till then try to get some regularity back, hang out with old friends. Do things you did before you knew her. Stray away from stuff you did together. It'll bring back the lonely feeling. Take a night off to chill wid da homies (LOL) live your life. Stop obsessing about it, drop the subject and go on with your bad self. :)</p>
<p>Hope that helps</p>
<p>-Steph</p>
<p>What I really hate about relationships is that most die before they ever get a chance to begin! This is due (in my opinion) to people and their hangups. I find this especially difficult because #1 Im a black female, #2 Im a very tall girl (6'2) and #3 Im not Micha Barton thin. What I dont understand about guys in general is why you (and I mean that in a gerneral sense. not calling any one out directly) let these things stop you from getting to me and girls like me. Im a really great person with all the intelligence and personality of ten "regular" girls, but still I find it near impossible to find a quality human being through the sea of freaks, losers, and weirdos. I just dont understand it. Maybe someone could enlighten me.</p>
<p>Its not true.Some older guys who are very confident with themselves go out with younger girls.Do any of you guys parents have any age differences?</p>
<p>My mom is 2 months older than my dad, which isn't really all that bad.</p>
<p>My mom is 2 years older than my dad, but it really doesnt make a dif.</p>
<p>"but still I find it near impossible to find a quality human being through the sea of freaks, losers, and weirdos."- rayj28 </p>
<p>I hear you on that one! I though that I would never meet a smart girl. Every girl I met at my school's dances had no brains so I felt like every girl would be like that (I know... sorry to the girls that just got insulted but read on) but then when I was on my school's trip to France I met this girl that works super hard in school and is really kind. We e-mail each other all the time. I sure do like her... excpet she lives in Italy. Darn! haha.</p>
<p>I'm pretty frustrated with males right now. I'm a lot like RayJ28. I'm a black, female, though I'm not tall, I'm not like supermodel thin either. I'm not fat but I'm not thin either. And it's frustrating when guys only look at the girls with perfect bodies. Errrr</p>
<p>Well, looking at girls with perfect bodies is pleasure for the eyes lol.</p>