I am not sure anyone have the same situation as mine. Basically I am from girl school since I was year 1 until form 5. This mean I seldom get the chance to mix with any boys. When I came here , I feel really awkward because I really don’t how to social with any guy . So what should I do ?
I’m literally in the same situation except I’m a boy. I literally have no clue how to socialize with girls :-S
First of all , I don’t understand what do boys like to talk about , or what would you prefer talk to the girls ?
That’s far too general of a question. I have no idea what I would want to talk to a girl about and how I would go about doing that. Both of us probably have poor social skills so we shouldn’t ask each other for advice, lol
People like to talk about themselves. When you are at a social function, ask people questions about themselves. Eventually they may say something which reveals that you have something in common, and you can jump off from there.
Join activities that interest you. That will give you access to people who share the same values/likes as you, and will give you something to talk about.
Join activities with structure at first, like help out at a Food Bank or play a sport. Then you will be near the opposite sex doing what you are supposed to be doing and have a chance to just be around them. As you feel more comfortable, you can open up.
@Lizardly That’s good advice. Thanks.
I join a bowling competition before and met a few guys but we like talk nothing expect he taught me how to play bowling . After the competition I don’t have his contact also l