Help Asking Out This Girl

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<p>Hey guys, first time poster. </p>

<p>The title of this thread pretty much says it all. </p>

<p>There's this girl in one of my classes that I think is absolutely gorgeous, but I don't know her name and I have no way of finding it out unless I go up and ask her. She also sits allllll the way across the room. </p>

<p>I've tried talking to her once as we were walking to our cars, and it went something like this: </p>

<p>"<this class=""> is pretty hard."</this></p>

<p>"I know right?"</p>

<p>"I'm not sure why I took it, haha. I'm terrible at <this subject="">."</this></p>

<p>She didn't say anything after that, so I FROZE UP. I HAD NO IDEA WHAT TO SAY. </p>

<p>To make things worse, our cars were parked RIGHT NEXT TO EACH OTHER. SO THERE WAS AN AWKWARD SILENCE ALL THE WAY TO OUR CARS. </p>

<p>I might be overthinking this, but there are a few reasons why I wasn't completely turned off by that (in a sense that she's not interested)</p>

<p>-- We had to walk around a parked vehicle, and I assume if she wanted to get away, she'd walk on the opposite side of me. She didn't. She followed me around. </p>

<p>--She also seem like the shy type, which is a good sign for me -- she's really quiet, and I don't see her chatting it up with anyone. Maybe she was just nervous. </p>

<p>-- And I -think- I've seen her at least looking in me direction once or twice (I can't be too sure though), so I'd like to try and ask her out still.</p>

<p>My question is: HOW DO I DO THAT?</p>

<p>edit: I thought I'd mention my original plan.</p>

<p>If I try, I can catch her by the stairs as we're walking towards our cars.</p>

<p>I was thinking of just being blunt: I'd get her attention (by tapping, or 'excuse me' or whatever) and say, "Hi, my name is Matt. I was actually just wondering if you'd like to grab some lunch?" more or less. </p>

<p>Should I, or shouldn't I, do that?</p>

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<p>You blunt method sounds good. It sounds like she may be interested in you and if she is shy as you says, not being beating-around-the-bush is the best tactic.</p>

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<p>Go for the “blunt” method. Any other method will surely take a lot of time to find out if she’s even interested in you or not.</p>

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<p>Since you both share the opinion of the class being a toughie, maybe you should ask about studying together while having lunch! =D</p>

<p>Good luck =)</p>

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<p>Simplest way is the best way. Stick with your plan.</p>

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<p>Does your college have a baseball team? Look up the schedule, then strike up a conversation with her and somehow work the baseball team into it. I’ll virtually guarantee you she hasn’t been to a game yet, and girls like doing new things. Invite her. </p>

<p>Hell, worked for me twice.</p>

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<p>Try the class method one more time. If that doesnt work then hell go for it. Dont waste your time on a girl who doesnt return anything.</p>

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<p>Your plan of action seems like the most simple. It should work! Good luck :]</p>

<p>Next time there is an awkward silence just ask her how her day has been or something.</p>

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<p>ask her for doing hw together, or reviewing exam together. good luck</p>

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<p>Walk with her to your her/your car again, and try to hold up a conversation and when you, or she, is about to get in the car, just say, “Hey how would you like to get some lunch (tomorrow, later, wednesday, etc.).” And see how it goes.</p>

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<p>Your plan is a good one. If you want something a little less direct, maybe ask her if she wants to study with you some time?</p>

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<p>Don’t ask her to study. Ask her to go do something fun. You don’t want to be the study guy, you want to be the fun guy. Fun!</p>