HELP NEEDED - girl asked me to prom and I said yes in front of class.. but i dont

<p>write her a poem explaining why you don’t wanna go to prom with her</p>

<p>suck it up and go. the time to think about how much it cost and what the consequences are for saying yes was the two seconds before you said yes. convince yourself you are doing the honorable thing.</p>

<p>I think that if the guy said “no” in front of the class, he’d still get attacked for “humiliating” the poor girl (poor baby!! When she finally got the guts to ask in front of he ENTIRE class!!). It’s a lose-lose situation. If you don’t want to go with her, it might be better not to go, else your hidden feelings might accidentally show during prom and make it even worse.</p>

<p>You’re going to prom with that girl. She’s excited and you can’t ruin it. </p>

<p>If you changed your mind, you’d break her heart you know…</p>

<p>You wouldn’t want to make her cry, would you?</p>

<p>You screwed up. Most girls are really sensitive about this. Me, not being one of those girls, can’t explain what would happen with her emotions.</p>

<p>But she is probably on top of the world right now.</p>

<p>Just go and be pleasant. She asked you, so she should pay for both tickets, the limo, the dinner and everything except your tux and the corsage that you should give her. You are her guest. Of course, if she doesn’t want to pay for those things, you’d have reason to back out. Don’t be surprised if she’s hoping you’ll become a couple. You may have to gently let her down. This happened with S with 2 different girls. They are still friends. He managed to let them know kindly, but clearly that he wasn’t interested in them romantically.</p>

<p>Wait, you’re a junior? (Somebody said it so I don’t know if it’s true.)</p>

<p>If that’s the case, you can always say that you don’t have the money to go to prom twice and you would like to go your senior year.</p>

<p>Just get sick on prom night so you don’t have to go.</p>

<p>Seriously…just tell her that she put you on the spot and that you shouldn’t have said yes, then apologize…sure she may be ****ed and you may look like a dick but she’ll get over it…and do you really want to spend a couple hundred dollars on a girl you don’t even like?</p>

<p>lol don’t pretend to get sick. A kid I know did that so instead of going to prom, his date, whom he didn’t like, ended up not going to prom and instead went to his home with soup and stayed with him for like the entire night to make sure “he was all better” so they could go out another time instead.</p>

<p>Ask someone for her number and call her to explain. Facebook is just too cold.</p>

<p>Fake an injury or death or something.</p>

<p>use some form of you cant afford it.</p>

<p>better idea: let one of your friend email the link of this thread to her… she will understand</p>

<p>i got ittt:</p>

<p>say you can’t afford prom, so she either has to pay for you (which if she does then go, its a free invitation to prom, better than nothing), and she won’t pay for you, there is your excuse- you can’t afford it.</p>

<p>tell her you can’t afford it, but DO NOT ask her to pay for you that seems like you’re just trying to get money out of her</p>

<p>say that you can’t afford it
if she really wants a date, either she’ll offer to pay for you, or you’re off the hook</p>

<p>How about you just be a bro. Go with the girl and then get your wheel on at an after party with someone else. Prom is just a dance, that’s all your gonna do with your date.</p>

<p>you’re a jerk. just go! you already bloody said yes to her; that’s going to break her!</p>

<p>From a girl’s point of view: I say that if you aren’t going to prom anyway, just tell her that you can’t make it. </p>

<p>Sure, if I were the girl, I’d be heartbroken/panicked to get a new date, but if I were in your situation… actually, on second thought, if she’ll be paying for everything (being the asker), then you should just go.</p>

<p>Just tell her that you don’t want to go and explain why and stuff. But, really if you don’t like her, why go to prom with a girl your not interested in? Prom is special and if your not going to have fun, then why bother? I’m pretty sure she will understand if you tell her that you dont want to go with her…but do it before its too late!! If she plans it and everything, then your too late…your going to ruin her prom night!!</p>

<p>everythings sorted out. thanks everyone ;). im not going and i broke it to her gently with a good excuse and explained everything.</p>